Do I Have To Wear Hijab If My Parents Say No

Do I Have To Wear Hijab If My Parents Say No

My sister who loved Allah, how if your parents forbid you to wear the hijab? Well, maybe a little article will help resolve the problem of parents who forbade her daughter wearing the hijab.

Is there any event in routine recitation islamic mosque nearest you? Try to ask the speaker to discuss with your parents about this. If he pleased, invite parents to come to the event so he could meet and discuss with udztad / udztazah.

Invite your friends are veiled to frequently come to the house. So parents you can see for themselves how a veiled Muslim woman can still be beautiful, active, smart school with and hang out with decent (not squirt but certainly not permissive loh, huh) ..

Try the fun stopped by the bookstore to find books on religion. Give the parents as reading material. Then if the atmosphere is relaxed, try to gently discuss with parents. No need to lie, do not need to surreptitiously or force. you've already large, whatever you like and parents can be a good compromise.

Indeed it is obedience to Allah must come first. Remember that Allah the Creator is the owner of our heads. Running His command to be carried out despite the many trials and challenges that come up, including the biological parents. Remember the story of Prophet Ibrahim's ace? There will be innocent of a child who did not obey their parents, if forced to disobey Allah. Explain that you want hijab to perform duties as a Muslim and to obey His commandments. If not done, the sin is not just you but also your parents. Is that what your parents want? Of course not not. You want to be a child who later sholehah prayer in both parents will never be interrupted righteous deeds even though her parents had died. Who else will be opening the doors of heaven except the pious prayers of children / ah?

Most important of course is your sincerity in implementing the command hijab. If you are consistent in hijab as she could prove that the attitudes and behavior the better you become after the hijab, of course the parents will believe.

What about dating? Well according to me, "everything will happen in due course beautiful" yes mate it If it's a matter of duty to Allah; because it comes directly from Allah yes of course we must do immediately to obey His commands, no need to obtain permission or waiting time, except pilgrimage yes-if it is capable. It is our obedience to Allah as our creator, you know. We want to wait until when? While the age we belong to Allah as well. Yes, if there is still time; if tomorrow we are called of Allah but our practice has not been perfect, certainly "no longer beautiful in its time". Hehehe .. :-)

A good woman, will get a good man. Tell your parents, that your hijab is in order to make ourselves to be worthy to get a good husband too. You hope his soul mate is a man whose religion was good also, because the man whose religion was either going to have enough understanding of how to treat and respect women, who should be taught in religion. Also by being an obedient servant of His, ye hope ye prayer of a good mate will soon be granted him. Parents certainly do not want your soul mate is a man who just saw your appearance from the outside. Believe me, it will not decrease the beauty of a woman because of hijab. In fact with the hijab, her beauty is not sold everywhere and are maintained only for a husband.

But do not forget my sister, there are many tips and guidelines on wearing hijab is beautiful and graceful. Look for information from the magazine veil, from the website, or from a blog that provides a discussion of the hijab. You will find information about wearing hijab a neat, pretty, and the right in accordance with the teachings of Islam. Wearing the hijab if not neat, not fitting in a choice of color and not fit to wear can make women less beautiful. And wear veils when in accordance with a trendy women's clothing musilm will add beautiful, but if not in accordance with the teachings of the Qur'an and the hadith prophet then not including wearing the hijab, even Allah will hate her.

Similarly, sharing a little of me, hopefully be an inspiration for you. Do not forget to continue praying to Allah I hope your parents immediately melted his heart. Add more with tahajud pray and pray and consulting on the Heart of Allah the Owner, may Allah give the best path for you, amen.