The Essence of Wearing Hijab
Seconds into the second, minute to minute, hour to hour, day after day, month to month to year long, do not feel our age how many now? Said Imam Al Gozali: "What is the closest to us" who are closest to us is death. Where are you going later on, it is definitely heading into the grave and finally heaven or hell eternal place for us.
Here I am reminded that my family and my friends in particular and for the general reader (the weather) to know what "essence USE THE VEIL", following the author to convey a true story that happened in Madiun (Indonesia) .(The article I quoted from H. Mohammed Sukarman . Tlp. 021-4604785. (home), 021-718 9104 (office) Email: sukarman@petrosea.com) which tells of a brother in which his sister died in their teens. For those of you who are not wearing the hijab, read the article below to completed.
"Essence USE VEIL"
This story I got from my friend who works at one of the foreign companies, in East Kalimantan: Here I quoted true story of a teenage girl who stepped on or cool today (ABG) that were previously not known his behavior, but once aware of his mistake, and already understand " WISDOM OF USE VEIL "God called him.
This true story from my friend at work.
The true story is hopefully useful for those who read it, especially the Eve, also for those who have a wife, who had a daughter, sister, sister, older sister, who still have a mother, who had a niece ........
My friends tell:
This is a story about my brother Nur Annisa, the new girl growing up but pretty hard-hearted and tomboyish. At the time my sister age 17, the development of behavior enought worrying my mother, many friends and her boyfriend who came home my mother was uncomfortable as a teacher of the Newspaper.
To anticipate that my mother told my sister wearing hijab, but always refused to quarrel arose among them a small argument. Never one time my brother said in a loud voice rada: "Mom let's see, my next door neighbor children wear the hijab but his behavior is no different with us, instead Ani's friends who wear hijab in schools was brought naughty boys, often take a walk, still more Ani good, although this Ani had never done anything like that ", when it is like that my mother just stroked his chest, sometimes at the end of the night I saw my mother cry, softly heard his prayer:" O Allah, introduced Annie to the law you, O God. "
On one day near my house, there are new neighbors who recently moved. One family which has six small children who are still small. Her husband named Abu Khoiri, (Effendy Khoiri) (who knows his real name) I know her time at the mosque.
After a while they moved arise rumors about the wife of Abu Khoiri who never leave the house, until nicknamed the blind, deaf and dumb. It is also sounded by the little sister, and she asked to me: "Sis, it's a new move that his wife was blind, deaf and dumb?" .. Hi, I casually replied "if you want to know please come directly to his house."
Look, that girl really did come home a new neighbor. Upon returning from my neighbor's house, I saw a drastic change in her face, her usual sunny never gloomy or lethargic become pale .... God knows what happened.?
But I thought no lapse of two days later he asked my mother to be made .. a long veil, again .. a long skirt, long sleeves ... I own so confused .... I'm more confused mix of gratitude to Allah SWT because I saw a miraculous change yah .. I say miraculously because he changed completely .. not many guys who come home or friends to just talk to a lady friend who is not known ... I saw him a lot of reflection, many read read Islamic magazine that normally she likes to buy a magazine or a young rich girl Femina magazine instead of a Islamic magazine, and I saw his worship was beyond me ... do not miss tahajudnya, read the Quran, prayer ... and that his circumcision was more amazing .... when my friends came to him lower his gaze ... Praise be to you, O God SWT cried my heart ..
Not how long I can call work in Borneo, working in a foreign company (PMA). Two months I worked there I can ill news that my brother until my mother called me to come home (my house in Madison). On the plane I kept constantly pray to Allah SWT for My brother was given the healing, but I just tried, when I got home, front door has a lot of people, can not help it I ran inside the house, I saw my mom crying, I immediately went and hug my mom, while my mother says the same stagnant choked me: "Dhi, your sister could say two sentences Shahadah at the end of his life" .. Can not help it this tear ...
After completion of burial and other events, for fun I entered the room and I saw my brother on his desk .. Diary diary which he always wrote, Diary where he spent his time before going to bed when I saw my brother was still alive when the deceased, then I opened the piece by piece ... until fixed on a single page that reveals the mysteries and questions that always arise in my heart .. changes that occur when a new brother home from Abu Khoiri ... there I saw the question and answer between my sister and wife of my neighbor, it looks like this:
Frequently asked questions (I saw that many former dilembaran tear drops)
Annie: I was humming (the woman's face was bright and shining like an angel), mother, mother's face is very young and beautiful.
Neighbor's wife: Thank God, the real beauty comes from the heart.
Annie: But my mother already had six children, but still look beautiful.
Neighbor's wife: Subhanallah, real beauty belongs to Allah and if Allah willed, who can resist.
Annie: Mom, I've always been told to wear hijab by my mother, but I always refused because I thought no problem I do not wear the hijab as long as I do not kind of variety and I saw many women wearing the hijab but exceed our behavior that is not wearing the hijab, so I do not never want to wear the hijab, according to the mother what?
Neighbor's wife: Annie O, Allah SWT makes all this a woman's body jewelry from head to toe, everything from our bodies that are seen by non mahrom we shall all be accountable before God Almighty Everlasting later, the veil is the veil for women.
Annie: But I saw many women who wear hijab are not good behavior, not frivolous.
My neighbor's wife: Hijab is just fabric, but the essence or meaning of the veil itself that we must understand.
Annie: What is the essence of hijab?
My neighbor's wife: The nature of the hijab headscarf is physically and spiritually. Hijab your eyes from looking at the man who is not Mahrom you. Hijab your tongue from ghibah (gossip) and useless vanities, try always dhikr to Allah SWT. Hijab your ears from hearing cases that invite harm both to yourself and society. Hijab kiss kiss your nose from all the bad smell. Hijab hands you from doing that is not obscene. Hijab foot stepping toward you from the immoral.
Hijab mind of thinking that invites you to trick the devil you desire. Hijab liver you from something other than Allah, if ye can so that you wear headscarves will illuminate your heart, that's the nature of the hijab.
Annie: Mom I am so clear now from the meaning of the hijab, hopefully I can wear the hijab, but how can I carry it all.
Neighbor's wife: Anisa when you wear the hijab that the gifts and blessings that come from Allah the Almighty Giver of Grace, the Most Merciful, if you appreciate the grace that you will be given the power to execute deeds veil until it reaches the desired perfection of Allah SWT.
Anisa, remember one day when all mankind will be resurrected from the grave. When the horn is blown a second time, when the spirit of the human spirit as Anai Anai scattered and gathered in a field that has no boundaries, the land of hot metal, there is no grass and plants.
When the seven brought near the sun over our heads but a state of darkness. When the Prophet fears. When the mother does not care about her child, the child does not heed his mother, his relatives did not know each other again, sometimes with one another can be the enemy, one good is more valuable than everything that exists is the wild.
When people lined with rows of long and each is only concerned with the fate of himself, and at that moment there is sweating out of fear that extraordinary to drown himself, and visual form of the human form vary depending on the deeds, have a look when his life but the blind when raised, some shaped like animals, some were shaped like a devil, all of them crying, crying because that day the wrath of Allah SWT, Allah SWT has never been angry before and after that day, until thousands of years humans hushed meadow mahsyar Allah that red-hot until Scales Mizan was held that day Yaumul Hisab.
Annie, if we do not try to do charity on the day, either by what we say when we are later in the trial by the Almighty, the Most Great, the Most Powerful, the Most Great, Allah SWT. In Yaumul Hisab later! On the Day of Judgement later!
Until I read diarynya here because I've seen, stopped and many tear drops that fall from her eyes welling up, Subhanallah, I turned and saw the next sheet of paper, then I saw the fine print at the bottom: blind, deaf and mute, a woman who never saw a man other than married individuals, women who never want to hear the case which may invite the wrath of Allah SWT, the woman who never spoke backbiting, ghosib and everything in vain invite sin and can not stand these tears fell wetting diary.
That's what I can read from the diary, may Allah SWT accept My brother at his side, Amin, Subhanallah.
Gentlemen, Ladies, My brother, my sisters and my children are glorified by Allah SWT. Especially women.
I hope this true story could be iktibar, a lesson for us, for the daughters of us all. May the hearts sink in which to read it and may Allah Almighty always give instructions, give grace, guidance for those who read and live it.
May Allah SWT continue to give our faith the strength to run (meet) all His commands and stay away from all what is forbidden him, and got a high degree of piety, good-till in the next world, get help and Syafa'at on day yaumul reckoning and get high heaven, amen. Wallaahu a'lam shawab bish, billaahi taufik wal guidance. Wassalaamu'alaikum warahmatullaahi wabarakatuh.
If you want to do good works, please copy and give it to others to read, in order to increase their faith and taqwa, God willing.
