Actually I also Want to Wear Hijab
Sister that not he was kept a lot of excuses: "God has not given me
guidance. Actually I also wish he was kept, but about what if until
now God has not given me guidance?, Pray me to immediately get
guidance! "
Sister who argue like this has been mired in a real mistake.
We would like to ask: "How do you know that God has not give
guidance? "
If the answer is, "I know", then one of two possibilities:
First, he knows the unseen which is in the book that hidden
(Lauhul Mahfuz). He must know also that he was among those
the damned and going to hell.
Second, there are other beings who were preaching to him about her fate, that
he did not include women who receive guidance. Could be that informs
the angels or even human.
if the answer was not possible there, how do you know God
not give guidance? This is one problem.
Another problem is, God has explained in His book, that guidance was
There are two kinds. Each is a guidance and guidance dilaIah Taufiq.
Hidayah Dilalah
This is a guidance or instructions on the truth. In this guidance, there
intervention and human effort, in addition to the guidance of Allah and the guidance
His Apostle. God has shown the path of truth in human mukallnf,
He also has shown the way evil that deviate from the guidelines
The Apostle and his book. The apostles had been explained this way to his nation.
So did the preacher. They are all explained in this way to humans. So
all took part in this guidance.
Taufiq Hidayah
This guidance only belongs to Allah alone, no partner for Him (in the provision of
Taufiq this guidance). He is a confirmation of truth in the hearts, preservation of
deviation, help to keep climbing and steadfast in the path of truth,
driving on the love of faith. Drivers on hatred towards kufr,
wickedness and disobedience.
Taufiq Hidayah given to those who fulfill God's call and
follow the instructions.
Type this guidance comes after dilalah guidance. From the start, with no
choose love, God showed the truth to all mankind. God
said, means:
"And as for the Tsamua then they have guided us, but they
more like the blind (error) than the instructions that .... "(Fushshilat: 17)
And for that, God created the potential in everyone mukaIlaf to
choose between the path of righteousness or evil path. If he chose the road
truth by his own volition then Taufiq guidance will come to him.
Allah says:
It means: "And those who ask for guidance, God (will) increase
instructions on them and gave them a (reply) ketakwaannya ".
(Muhammad: 17)
If he chooses according to his own evil, then God will
add error to him and distanced him from God's guidance and Taufiq.
Allah says:
It means: "Say: 'Whoever is in error, then let
Merciful prolong the tempo for him .... "(Maryam: 75)
It means: ... And when they turn away (from truth), God turned
their hearts. " (Ash Shaf: 5)
Taufiq Hidayah Penumpamaan
Ash Shaykh Sya'rawi the analogy is very striking about the guidance
Taufiq this, and it is the laws. He likens the
someone who asks an address. The man went to the police traffic
to ask for the address. Other police advised: "You can walk
straight along this street until the crossroad you turn right,
then there is the hall, you turn left, where you get the highway,
across the highway will be visible building with a large pamphlet,
That's the address you are looking for. "
The person is faced with two choices, believe in the police manual or
denied. If you believe in the police, he will immediately move to follow
instructions it receives. If the run continues in accordance with police instructions,
he will move closer to a place and address that he wanted.
If he does not trust the police suggestion that even are cursed as
liar, so he walked to the opposite direction, the more distant
he walked, the far too kesesatannya. That is the parable of the instructions and
error.
This is an appropriate metaphor for closer understanding sunnatullah
this. Who would choose truth, God will help and confirming the diagnosis. And
who choose evil, God would be misleading it and let it
together with the accompanying demons.
Find Causes Hidayah, Undoubtedly you It The
That the laws which apply to all creatures. Allah says:
... And occasionally you will not get a replacement for the sunnah of Allah, and
It was not (too) will see the deviation for the sunnah of Allah. "
(Faathir: 43)
As for the laws of fate change, will only happen if the human
start by changing first himself, others seek
the causes of the changes meant. Allah says:
It means: "Verily Allah does not change the state of a people so that they
change the existing situation on themselves. "(Ar Ra'd: 11)
So people who want guidance, and wants other people
pray for him to get it, he has struggled with
causes that can deliver these to get guidance.
In this case, there is a good example of self-Maryam. One day, he
desperate need of food, when it fact, he was in very weak condition,
as common in women who want to give birth. Then God
ordered him to do a business that men once the most powerful
would not be able to do so. Mary asked to wiggle the base
palm trees, although the base of the palm trees are very sturdy and difficult
shake-shake. Allah says:
It means: "And shake the base of the palm trees at you .... (Maryam: 25)
Maryam may not be able to shake the base of the palm trees, while he was in
a very weak condition. It was only meant as an attempt to find cause
by putting his hand on the palm trees.
Thus fulfilling the law of causality and the laws in terms of
changes. So the result is:
It means: "The tree will abort the palm fruit that ripen to you."
(Maryam: 25)
These are the laws of change. No way believers continually
was in the mosque, even though at the Grand Mosque with just sitting and
worship God, Seraya rizki expect from God.
Surely God will not grant it without her own search for the causes
rizki them. The sky can not rain all of a sudden lowering of gold and
silver.
Therefore, O ukhti, try to find the causes of guidance, undoubtedly
you get it by Allah's guidance. Among the businesses it is
pray in order to get guidance, to choose friends who Shalihah, always reading,
study and ponder the Book of Allah, following the dhikr and assemblies
religious lectures, listening to tapes of religious teaching, reading books about
faith and so forth.
However, before doing all that you should first
leave the things that could distances from the road guidance. As Friends
that is not good, read the magazines that do not educate, witnessed
TV TV we generate illicit deeds, travel
without a mahram, a relationship with the youth (courtship), and
other things that are contrary to the way of guidance.
E. Doubtful FIFTH: FEAR not sell marriage
Some akhawat that did not quibble with the hijab is not afraid of marriage behavior
Doubtful whispered by Satan in the soul that is not part akhawat he was kept
This base is the feeling that young people will not want to decide
married unless she has seen the body, hair, skin, beauty and
The girl's jewelry. If he was he was kept, or wearing veils, of course nobody
can be seen from him, so that the youth are reluctant to make decisions
to marry her.
Ironically, these beliefs are, not only the akhawat monopoly, but
also the trust of parents, in the end they prohibit
children of her daughter wearing the hijab. Doubtful this can not be received via two
fundamental reasons.
Assessment of Basic Theory Side
Although beauty is one of the most fundamental cause of marriage,
but he was not the only reason he married her. Messenger of Allaah
'Alaihi wasallam said:
"She was married for four things. That is because the wealth, lineage,
beauty and her religion. Get a woman who cling to religion,
(If not) necessarily hands smeared with dust.
Indeed the case. Men not only look at the elements
beauty per se, but there are other things that blend with the beauty that
or apart from it, which is used as consideration in choosing a wife. But
many girls and parents who think beauty is
everything. Or at least make the beauty as an element
Most importantly, while other things can be ruled out. Clearly, the way the mind
such is contrary to human instinct.
Assessment of the Empirical Side
It could be the attitude of the girls who used to show genitals, which are intended
to captivate a man, become a boomerang for him. How much action
it only made the young men reluctant to marry her. For the young men could have
it is assumed, if the woman dared to violate one command
God, the hijab, it is possible he would dare to violate
other commands. Because the devil has many tricks.
Although sometimes the fact that there are not always consistent with this opinion,
but that was the state of the majority of our youth today. Youth
who edited her hijab girl, her name will be fragrant, although he
itself does not include people who are assessed obey the command
religion.
F. Doubtful SIXTH: HE STILL HAS NOT ADULT
This doubtful many circulating among parents and some who akhawat
not her hijab. Actually, these kids already have the intention to use
hijab, but then postponed because of this doubtful. Therefore, this excuse more
deserve the name of lust than doubtful.
Most of them said: "Do not get banned enjoy life. He
yet still immature. He was still pleased with the beautiful clothes, primp
with a variety of make-up and still likes to show her beauty. All
This makes it more happy and enjoy life. "
Why do we prohibit and impede happiness just when their age
still relatively very young?
If we already missed the train, why we make it too
missed the train with in such a hurry?
In their opinion, pupillage take up to children aged two
twenty years. Therefore, while there are girls who are coming month at the age of 13
years, she still considered a child.
Advice for The Guardian
Indeed the saints, either father or mother who prevents his daughter's children
her hijab, ostensibly because it is still immature, they have a responsibility
great responsibility before God on the Day of Judgement.
When a girl get menstruating, he must at once also had the hijab,
according to the shari'ah. If the guardian she forbade her hijab, then she gets
great sin, and God's will, ask about it on the day of Judgement. God
said:
It means: "And resist them (in place of rest) because they
will be asked ". (Ash-Shaaffaat: 24)
That is if he sent his daughter wearing the hijab since early.
Prophet ShalIallahu 'alaihi wasallam said:
"Each of you is the leader and each of you will be asked about
they lead .... "
A father was the first leader in the household. On the day of Judgement he
will be asked about each person who was under his leadership.
Every father should ask himself: "How many
youth who are tempted by his daughter's child? How far his daughter cause
deviation of the youth? "
The expression of Love for Children Puteri
God as a witness, how we are deeply worried about you will get
punishment of God. We were so desperate to save you from any danger that would
happen, both in the world and the hereafter. It is the duty of a Muslim
to another Muslim brother.
Among the dangers that would befall ukhti not known to be the hijab, both in the world
and in the hereafter, is as mentioned the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam
in his saying:
"There will be at the end of my people, the men who rode like a saddle
the men, they fell in front of the doors of the mosque, the women they
dress (but) naked, on top of their heads (there is something) like
the graceful camel hump. Laknatlah them!, In fact they are
women cursed.
O ukhti who had no hijab! Do you know the meaning of anathema? Anathema means
kept away from the grace of Allah Ta'ala.
In the hadeeth, the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasalam ordered each
Muslims, for the kind of woman cursed as already mentioned. Namely they
dressed in their bodies, but not to close his private parts,
so as if they were naked. In another hadith the Prophet sallallaahu
alaihi wasalam said:
"Two groups, including residents of Hell, I (myself) had never seen
them, namely the people who carry whips, such as cows, with
they whip the men, and women who are dressed (but) bare,
wiggle and waddle, their heads (something) like
hump camel swaying. They certainly will not enter Heaven, even
do not get the smell. And actually smell that heavenly smell from a distance
travel so and so ". (HR.Muslim)
In the hadith are the properties in detail about the class of women
this, namely:
Wearing some clothes, but he resembles a naked person, because
most of his body open and it is easy to arouse male lust,
such as thighs, arms, hair, chest and others. Also see-through clothes
view or a very tight, thus forming the contours of her body, then he
like naked, though dressed.
The road lenggak-sway and sway, so that arouse lust.
Her head looks taller, because he makes art decorations of feathers or
synthetic hair, because of the high, he is like a camel hump.
Hadith also clarifies the nature of women who do not attend classes
heaven, even the mere smell the fragrance was not, but the grace of God
includes all the heavens and the earth. Not to mention the Prophet Shallallalhu 'upon him
Wasallam who commanded the Muslims to curse them. "Laknatlah them,
indeed they were cursed woman. "
We do not want, but good for you our concerns to
yourself, encourage our hope from the deepest depths of our hearts, to
you away from everything that is unpopular. May God fill the hearts
you with a light that never goes out, then you win
fight against demons, jinn and humans. Next you determined
liberate self-entrapment and release of prisoners of passions, to the natural
freedom, glory, honor, peace and sanctity of nature.
Do You Ensure You're Still The length?
O ukhti that did not hijab! You do not want to he was kept under the pretext still
immature, if you can guarantee a long old while longer?
Do you know, or someone preaching to you about when you
going to die?
If not, then perhaps death would pick you up after a year, month,
week, day, hour or a second later. All of that department may, during
we do not know when our death will come.
O ukhti, death is not just knock on the door of the sick, nor
the elderly, but also the people in good health, people
adult, youth and even until the baby is still sucking at her mother's lap.
