Veiling But Why Still Be So?

Veiling (wear hijab) But Why Still Be So?
By : Rausan

Last night when more fun to read and read on a blog of a friend, namely is Salman. I found an interesting article that inspired me to this article. The main topic of a veiled girl or her hijab. My favorite little brain was immediately given some of my friends who also wear the hijab, but I feel, how their appearance and personality there that tastes weird huh?. How so?.

Hemm, my friends are indeed wearing the hijab. But appearance and personality I think they did not fit with the crown that they use it. There are a few of my friends who obviously wear the hijab headscarf but they use only because they were ordered or even forced by parents and environment, without the sincere intentions of the self. This resulted in the occurrence of an attitude that actually looks like a rejection or defiance made. For example, there are some friends of women who wear veils because they feel forced and resulted in these women once they are out of the environmental supervision of his parents, he immediately took off the veil that is used.

Or even more makes me wonder, there are some of my friends who use the veil only as camouflage, as if the veil is only considered a piece of cloth bemakna. As a friend of mine who use the veil only to cover the hair dyed blond hair, so as not affected by teachers in the school raid, there is also a veiled but dressed in tight. Or more bizarre, there is a veil just to look pious and distract people from the pregnant belly.

And when talking about personality, I consider that a woman or a woman who decided themselves to wear the hijab, or at least wear the hijab because they were ordered, should be able to keep the said words and attitudes that are used. Because I have encountered many, many veiled women friends who are still commonly seen laughing lol unbearable, flirty, tend to head-on with the opposite sex. Ouch-ouch, do not be so dong sis.

Hijab itself I think is a 'tool' used by women with profits to protect themselves from the bad things that might happen. Bad things can come from other people who intend evil or self-forgetfulness and mistake. Why do I refer to it as a means?, Because I consider using the hijab as a choice. Means of glorifying self in the given by Allah SWT, which can be selected or rejected. Problem effects and impacts that will occur, completely covered by the voters.

Because for me the decision of a special creature that is woman to veil, only entitled to is determined by the individual women themselves. The problem of parents who wish to have children who veiled, yaa up respectively. But according to the experience I have seen so far, children who are forced, pressured to veil, tend to have high dissent properties. They become blind to the meaning and further considers that the crown that they use is simply a means of restraint given the parents, without knowing the goodwill provided by parents.

If you think that I am a fundamental or conservative-minded, the answer is absolutely not. I grew up in a family that upholds free speech and attitude to choose a decision. Not because I am veiled mother, then my mind was indoctrinated to believe, veiled Muslim women should be like this, should not, absolutely not. This paper is purely my conscience. If God gave my destiny to get a mate to veiled women, yes, of course Alhamdulilah. Should not be a scarf, yes of course also still Alhamdulilah.

I honestly do not discriminate between women who are veiled and not. Throughout her attitude and looks capable of keeping his inner beauty, I definitely fall in love, hehehe. I believe the name of love from the heart, not from the eye.

Not agree with my writings Veiling but why so? , No problem. Suppose this is written by a teenage know-it-is style-gayaan writing about hijab. Because I was aware for some people, the topic of the veil is very sensitive. Warm Greetings from Rausan, the juvenile knowingly  :-) ..