Saturday, April 30, 2011

The Importance of Wearing Hijab for Health

The Importance of Wearing Hijab for Health

Prophet said, "The women who dressed but (essentially) naked, lenggak-crook, their heads like a camel hump, they will not enter heaven, and have no smell fragrant scent (Narrated by Abu Daud)

Prophet said, "No prayer accepted except adult women who wear Khimar (headscarf) (Narrated by Ahmad, Abu Daud, Tirmidhi, bn Majah)

Scientific research has found contemporary Praise be to Allaah women who are not veiled or dressed but tight, or transparent, then he will experience a variety of malignant cancer all over his limbs that are open, what girl or girls who wear tight-tight clothes.

British medical magazine launched the results of scientific research by quoting a few facts, among them that milanoma malignant cancer at an early age, and increasing and spreading to the legs. And the main cause of this malignant cancer is tight clothing worn by the daughters in the sun, in a long time after many years. and nylon socks they wear is not at all helpful in keeping their feet from malignant cancer.

The British medical magazine also has conducted a poll about this milanoma disease, and as their circumstances are similar to those lawless state (Arab pagans) who in da'wahi by the Prophet. Concerning this Allah says:

وإذ قالوا اللهم إن كان هذا هو الحق من عندك فأمطر علينا حجارة من السماء أو ائتنا بعذاب أليم (الأنفال: 32)

And remember when they said: O Allah, if this (the Qur'an) is true from your side then we hujanilah with stones from heaven or bring us a painful punishment (Surah Al-Anfaal: 32)

And it has come a painful punishment or a lighter than it is, namely a malignant cancer, where cancer is ferociously fierce-cancer of various cancers. And this disease is the result of which contain ultraviolet sun for a long period disekujur tight clothing, beach clothes (which is usually used when the unbelievers on the beach and bask in there) that they wear.

The disease is sometimes the whole body and with different levels. What appears first is like a little black dots wide. And sometimes in the form of small spheres, mostly in the legs or calves, and sometimes in the area around the eye, then spread to all parts of the body along with growth in areas that are commonly seen, engagement spleen (the area above the thighs), and attacks the blood, and settle in the liver and cause damage.

Sometimes also settled in the whole body, including: bone, and the inside of the chest and abdomen because of the two kidneys, until the causes of black urine due to kidney damage due to attack this cancer disease. And sometimes also attack the fetus in the womb of the mother who was pregnant. People who suffer from this cancer will not live long.

From here, we know that the great wisdom relating to human anatomy in the Islamic perspective on women who violate the limits of shari'ah. namely that the model is correct women's clothing that covers her entire body, not tight, not transparent, except face and palms. And it's increasingly clear that the clothes are simple and polite is the best preventive measures so as not to hit "adzab world" like the above mentioned diseases, especially adzab afterlife that much more powerful and poignant.

Then, if after the testimony of contemporary science-and already there is confirmation of shari'ah law is wise since 14 centuries ago-we will still not a good dress (hijab), even the fact remains tabarruj?

Source: Al-I'jaaz Al-Ilmiy FII Al-Islam wa al-Sunnah al-Nabawiyah

Friday, April 29, 2011

Why I Wear Hijab And Not Niqaab

Why I Wear Hijab And Not Niqaab

Tara bint Curtis Gregory conducts a painstaking investigation of what the often disputed references from the Quran and ahadith actually say and sets out the conclusions she has arrived at after three years of research.

Indeed, all praises are due to Allah, we praise Him, seek His Aid and beg for His Forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evil in our souls and from the bad consequences of our deeds. Whomever Allah guides, no one can lead that person astray and whomever Allah leads astray no one can guide that person. I bear witness that there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah Who is alone and without any partners and I bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave and final Prophet and Messenger sent to mankind. And certainly the most perfect speech is the Speech of Allah and the finest guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (saws). The worst of affairs are those that are innovated into this religion as every innovation is misguidance and every misguidance is astray and every going astray leads to the Hell Fire.

This article is not meant to serve as a fatwa (legal opinion) as I am not qualified to issue fatwas. I also need to make it clear that I don't follow a madhab (Islamic school of thought) and I respect the four imams just as much as I respect the scholars of today. I don't blindly follow the scholars, I follow the Quran and Sunnah that they follow. Whatever I have written that is true is from Allah alone while anything that is false is from myself and shaytan. May Allah forgive me and have mercy on me, ameen.

I support niqaab.  I just don't view it as obligatory. I know a lot of niqaabis who are very dear sisters to me so please don't think I am against niqaabis. I also know a lot of non-hijabis (muslim women who don't wear any head covering) who I am close to. They are striving to cover and may Allah (swt) increase their iman and give them strength to overcome their personal struggle ameen.

A Muslimah who wears hijab is not better than one who wears niqaab and vice versa. Nobody is better than the next except in taqwah (piety, fear of Allah) Allah Most High does not care about our wealth, our beauty or lack of it, etc. What He cares about is what is in the heart such as niyyah (intention) and the deeds. In Saheeh Muslim it is reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Allaah does not look at your outward appearance and your wealth, rather He looks at your hearts and deeds.” (Hadith No. 4651)

Every Muslim woman will be judged on the Yawm Al-Qiyama (Day of Judgement) concerning what they understood about the command of veiling. So let us leave the judgment to Allah Most High, who is the best of judges.

I have spent three years now researching the controversial issue of niqab vs. hijab. Each time I reach a conclusion hijab always wins. I am attempting to explain why I choose to cover everything except my face and hands using authentic daleel (proof, evidence) insha'Allah (God willing.) There are two sides to the veiling issue in reality so it should be expected that two sides will be presented. We can't force women to decide which of these two sides is right, Allah ta'ala (most high) will guide them. Our duty is simply to convey the message and then hand the hidayah (guidance) over to Allah ta'ala. At this point we have no control over that particular person because this Islamic religion has no compulsion.

I encourage you to read an excellent article compiled by Sharifa Carlo Al-Andalusia titled HIJAB uses excerpts from the esteemed muhadith (scholar of ahadith) Sheikh Nasir Ud-Din Al-Albani (may Allah have mercy on him) on hijab and he uses authentic daleel from Quran and Sunnah. Al-Albani did not oppose niqaab he just didn't rule in favor of it being obligatory. Many of you might know him but for those of you who don't you can read his biography at fatwa-online.com

Hafsah, daughter of 'Abdur-Rahman, once came before 'A'isha wearing a thin shawl over her head and shoulders. 'A'isha tore it up and put a thick shawl over her. The Messenger of Allah (saws) also said, "Allah has cursed those women who wear clothes yet still remain naked." The khalif, 'Umar, once said, "Do not clothe your women in clothes that are tight-fitting and reveal the shapeliness of the body." The above-mentioned traditions make it explicitly clear that the dress of Muslim women must cover the whole body, whether in the house or outside, even with her nearest relatives. She must not expose her body to anybody except her husband, and must not wear a dress that shows the curves of her body. Sheikh Muhammad Nasiruddin al-Albani, are of the opinion that, because modern times are particularly full of fitnah (mischief), women should go as far as to cover their faces because even the face may attract sexual glances from men. Shaikh al-Albani says, "We admit that the face is not one of the parts of the body to be covered, but it is not permissible for us to hold to this taking into consideration the corruption of the modern age and the need to stop the means for further corruption." It is respectfully submitted, however, that in the light of the Prophetic traditions it suffices to cover the body, leaving out the face and hands up to the wrist joints, since this is the specified Islamic covering and it may sometimes be essential for a woman to go about her lawful engagements with her face uncovered. However if a woman prefers to put on the veil (burqah), she should not be discouraged as this may be a sign of piety and God-consciousness (taqwah). The rules on dress are slightly relaxed when a woman reaches old age and her sexual attractions have faded. Such elderly women as are past the prospect of marriage, there is no blame on them if they lay aside their (outer) garments, provided they make not a wanton display of their beauty; but it is best for them to be modest and Allah is the One who sees and knows all things. (24:60)

Monday, April 25, 2011

The main errors of those who make the face veil obligatory

The main errors of those who make the face veil obligatory

1. The interpretation of al-idnaa’ in the verse of Hijab/the Jilbab to mean “covering the face”.

This misinterpretation is contrary to the basic meaning of the word in Arabic which is “to come close”, as is mentioned in authoritative dictionaries like al-Mufradaat by the well-known scholar, ar-Raaghib al-Asbahaanee. However, there is sufficient evidence in the interpretation of the leading commentator on the Quran, Ibn ‘Abbaas, who explained the verse saying, “She should bring the jilbaab/hijab close to her face without covering it.” It should be noted that none of the narrations used as evidence to contradict this interpretation are authentic.


2. The interpretation of jilbaab as “a garment which covers the face.”

Like the previous misinterpretation, this interpretation has no basis linguistically. It is contrary to the interpretation of the leading scholars, past and present, who define the jilbaab as a garment which women drape over their head scarves (khimaar). Even Shaykh at-Tuwaijree himself narrated this interpretation from Ibn Mas‘ood and other Salafee scholars. Al-Baghawee mentioned it as the correct interpretation in his Tafseer (vol. 3, p. 518) saying, “It is the garment which a woman covers herself with worn above the dress (dir ‘) and the headscarf.” Ibn Hazm also said, “The jilbaab in the Arabic language in which the Messenger of Allaah (pbuh) spoke to us is what covers the whole body and not just a part of it.” (vol. 3, p. 217). Al-Qurtubee declared this correct in his Tafseer and Ibn Katheer said, “It is the cloak worn above the headscarf.” (vol. 3, p. 518)


3. The claim that the khimaar (headscarf) covers the head and the face.

In doing so “the face” has been arbitrarily added to its meaning in order to make the verse: “Let them drape their headscarves over their busoms” appear to be in their favor, when, in fact it is not. The word khimaar linguistically means only a head covering. Whenever it is mentioned in general terms, this is what is intended. For example in the hadeeths on wiping (mas-h) on the khimaar and the prophetic statement, “The salaah of a woman past puberty will not be accepted without a khimaar.” This hadeeth confirms the invalidity of their misinterpretation, because not even the extremists themselves – much less the scholars – use it as evidence that the covering of a woman's face in salaah is a condition for its validity. They only use it as proof for covering the head. Furthermore, their interpretation of the verse of the Qawaa‘id “… to remove their clothing” to mean “jilbab”/hijab further confirms it. They hold that it is permissible for old women to appear before marriagealbe males in her headscarf with her face exposed. One of their noteable scholars openly stated that. As for Shaykh at-Tuwaijree, he implied it without actually saying it.


After checking the opinions of the early and later scholars in all the specializations, I found that they unanimously hold that the khimaar is a head covering. I have mentioned the names of more than twenty scholars, among them some of the great Imaams and hadeeth scholars. For example, Abul-Waleed al-Baajee (d. 474 AH) who further added in his explanation, “Nothing should be seen of her besides the circle of her face.”


4. The claim of a consensus (Ijmaa‘) on the face being considered ‘awrah.

Shaykh at-Tuwaijree claimed that scholars unanimously held that the woman's face was ‘awrah and many who have no knowledge, including some Ph.D. holders, have blindly followed him. In fact, it is a false claim, which no one before him has claimed. The books of Hambalite scholars which he learned from, not to mention those of others, contain sufficient proof of its falsehood. I have mentioned many of their statements in Ar-Radd. For example, Ibn Hubayrah al-Hambalee stated in his book, al-Ifsaah, that the face is not considered ‘awrah in the three main schools of Islaamic law and he added, “It is also a narrated position of Imaam Ahmad.” Many Hambalite scholars preferred this narration in their books, like Ibn Qudaamah and others. Ibn Qudaamah in al-Mughnee explained the reason for his preference saying, “Because necessity demands that the face be uncovered for buying and selling, and the hands be uncovered for taking and giving.”


Among the Hambalite scholars, is the great Ibn Muflih al-Hambalee about whom Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah said, “There is no one under the dome of the sky more knowledgeable about the school of Imaam Ahmad than Ibn Muflih.” And his teacher, Ibn Taymiyyah, once told him, “You aren't Ibn Muflih, you are Muflih!”

It is incumbent on me to convey Ibn Muflih’s statements for the readers because of the knowledge and many benefits contained in them. Included in them is further confirmation of the falsehood of Shaykh at-Tuwaijree’s claim and support for the correctness of my position on the issue of uncovering the face. Ibn Muflih stated the following in his valuable work al-Aadaab ash-Shar‘iyyah – which is among the references cited by Shaykh at-Tuwaijree (something which indicates that he is aware of it, but has deliberately hidden these crucial facts from his readers while claiming the contrary):


“Is it correct to chastise marriageable women if they uncover their faces in the street?

The answer depends on whether it is compulsory for women to cover their faces or whether it is compulsory for men to lower their gaze from her. There are two positions on this issue.

    * Regarding the hadeeth of Jareer in which he said, “I asked Allaah’s Messenger about the sudden inadvertent glance and he instructed me to look away.” Al-Qaadee ‘Iyaad commented, “The scholars, May Allaah Most High have mercy on them, have said that there is proof in this hadeeth that it is not compulsory for a woman to cover her face in the street. Instead, it is a recommended sunnah for her to do so and it is compulsory for the man to lower his gaze from her at all times, except for a legislated purpose. Shaykh Muhyud-deen an-Nawawee mentioned that without further explanation.”
    * Then al-Muflih mentioned Ibn Taymiyyah’s statement which at-Tuwaijree relies on in his book (page 170), while feigning ignorance of the statements of the majority of scholars. Statements like those of al-Qaadee ‘Iyaad and an-Nawawee’s agreement with it.

Then al-Muflih said, “On the basis of that, is chastisement legal? Chastisement is not allowed in issues in where there is a difference of opinion, and the difference has already been mentioned. As regards our opinion and that of a group of Shaafi‘ite scholars and others, looking at a marriageable woman without desire or in a secluded circumstance is permissible. Therefore, chastisement is not proper.”

This answer is in complete agreement with Imaam Ahmad’s statement, “It is not proper that a jurist oblige people to follow his opinion (math-hab).” And this is if the truth were on his side. What of the case where the jurist proudly, dishonestly misleads people and declares other Muslims to be disbelievers as at-Tuwaijree did on page 249 of his book saying,

“… Whoever permits women to expose their faces and uses the proofs of al-Albaanee has flung open the door for women to publicly flaunt their beauty and emboldened them to commit the reprehensible acts done by women who uncover their faces today.” And on page 233 he said, “… and to disbelief in the verses of Allaah.”

Those are his words – May Allaah reform him and guide him. What would he say about Ibn Muflih, an-Nawawee, al-Qaadee ‘Iyaad and other Palestinian scholars, as well as the majority of scholars who preceded them and who are my salaf regarding my opinion on this matter?

Friday, April 15, 2011

Questions & Answers About Hijaab

Questions & Answers About Hijab

    * What is the Hijab? The word itself comes from the arabic word "hajaba" meaning to conceal or hide from view. Hijab is the modest covering of the head and body of muslim women.

    *   Who has to wear it? All muslim adults are supposed to wear the appropriate hijab for their sex.This is one Hadith related by Abu Dawood: "Ayesha(r) reported that Asmaa bint Abu Bakr(r) came to the Messenger of Allah(swt) while wearing thin clothing. He approached her and said: 'O Asmaa! When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this.' He pointed to the face and hands."

    *   Why do they have to wear it? Muslims must wear the hijab because Allah(swt) ordered it. Muslims have two sources for guidance. The first and most important source is Qur'an, the revealed word of Allah(swt). They may then use Hadith which is the sayings and traditions of the Prophet Muhammad(saw) who was chosen by Allah(swt) to be a role model for mankind.


      Here are two passages from the Qur'an that order the hijab.
      
            "O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims) and not annoyed..." (Qur'an 33:59)

            "Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and Allah (swt) is well acquainted with all that they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; and they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what must ordinarily appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty to their husbands..." (Qur'an 24:30-31)


      An Iranian school girl is quoted as saying, "We want to stop men from treating us like sex objects, as they have always done. We want them to ignore our appearance and to be attentive to our personalities. We want them to take us seriously and treat us as equals and not chase us around for our bodies and physical looks." Refer to 1st section of  THIS PAGE  for a debate on Women & Islam

    * What do they get out of dressing like that? By covering our beauty, we are evaluated for our intelligence and skills instead of looks and sexuality. Many women who cover are filled with dignity and self-esteem and are happy to be identified as a muslim woman. By wearing hijab the woman is concealing her sexuality but allowing her femininity to shine. Aside from that, it is pleasing to Allah and in return we earn blessings from wearing it.

    *   What is the "dress code"? Islam has no fixed standard as to the style of dress or type of clothing that muslims must wear. There are however, some requirements that must be met. These include:

      Body must be covered
    * Loose Clothing-The clothing must be loose enough so as not to describe the shape of the body.
    * Thick Material-The garments must be thick enough to hide the shape of the body and the color of the skin.
    * Modesty-The dress should not be ragged or fancy. It should be clean and dignified looking.
    * Suitability-This is another Hadith from Bukhari "Ibn Abbas narrated:

'The Prophet(saw) cursed the men who appeared like women and the women who appeared like men.'"

Clothing is only one facet of hijab. It is also behavior, manner, and speech. Women who wear the hijab do not find it inhibiting, impractical, or interfering. We should wear the hijab to show our identity as muslims. More importantly, we should wear it to show our love and respect for Almighty Allah and his instructions.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Their government forces them to uncover their heads when having pictures taken

Their government forces them to uncover their heads when having pictures taken

We live in X and when getting a passport here we need to take a photo. But the problem is that when muslim women take photo in their headscarves the officials don't accept and permit them, saying that the woman must be without a headscarf on a photo. That's why at the current moment many muslim women aren't able to get their passports ( because they don't want to take off their headscarves) and can't do some personal business where they need to use the passport. I want to ask whether or not this situation is considered by Islam as a necessety and if it is a necessity maybe it allows them in this situation to take off their headscarves. If it's not allowed again, then what should they do in this situation? And one more thing. During jahiliyya many women took pictures for passport without their headscarf, and now they've embraces Islam, but they walk with this passport everywhere and where necessary show this passport( in some institutions). What should they do in this situation? ( note that government officials don't allow to be on photo with the headscarf, although according to their law there are no problems).

Praise be to Allaah.

Undoubtedly what some countries are doing, by preventing Muslim women from adhering to hijab, is a great evil and serious crime. If it is done by a kaafir country, there is no sin greater than kufr, but the tragedy is that such things are being done by people who call themselves Muslims. Equally abhorrent is what some countries do by forcing women to have pictures taken without hijab for official documents such as passports and ID cards. While we find kaafir countries that allow women to apply for official documents with a picture in hijab, at the same time we see some so-called Muslim countries refusing to allow that and going to extremes in that. What some kaafir countries and cities are doing now, trying to stop Muslim women from submitting pictures in hijab, is of secondary concern when compared with these so-called Muslim countries.

On 26/4/2004 news agencies reported that German courts had allowed Muslim women to submit pictures in which they appeared in hijab when applying for passports.

The Russian Supreme Court annulled the rulings of the Ministry of the Interior which required Russian citizens to have their pictures taken without a head cover, and the Supreme Court ruled that “female citizens whose religious beliefs do not allow them to appear in front of strangers without a head cover may have a picture with a head cover in the passport.”

Look at how the courts in some kaafir countries uphold the rights of Muslim women, whilst this right is opposed in countries that are supposedly Muslim.

Whatever the case, it is not permissible for a woman to obey anyone who tells her to disobey Allaah and take off her hijab in the street or in a picture. It is not permissible for a woman to do that unless it has reached the point of necessity, such as being compelled by force to do that, or if these documents are essential for the necessities of life. 

It is not permissible to go against Islamic rulings in this case unless one is certain of the necessity or thinks it most likely. It is not permissible to do that for the sake of non-essential travel, rather it should only be done in the case of necessity and for essential documents such as residence permits and ID cards.

Whoever is forced to do that should not let a stranger (non-mahram) take her picture, rather (the photographer) should be a mahram to her or a woman like her, unless she cannot find anyone who meets that criterion, in which case she is excused. And it is not permissible for her to do any more than uncover the head. Some countries accept a picture in which the ears or the front of the head can be seen, so she should not go beyond that.

We ask Allaah to grant relief to the Muslims and to make strong their religion that He has chosen for them, and to help them and make them steadfast in obeying Him.


And Allaah knows best.
Islam Q&A

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Does When Women At Prayer Opens His face, shows that (face it) is not Aurat?

Does When Women At Prayer Opens His face, shows that (face it) is not Aurat?

Question :

In Islam prohibited from opening the genitalia in prayer. If a woman in a prayer opening the face, whether it demonstrates that the niqab (face cover) is not compulsory and the woman's face rather than genitals?

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Answers :

Alhamdulillah.

Is not justified to argue with a woman who uncovers (cover) his face in prayer shows that the face was not the genitals.

Explanation (thing) that is: That is not in the Qur'an and Sunnah Nabawiyah who ordered people who pray to close the external genitalia and open it in prayer. So it is not true to say under what is ordered to be closed to people who pray are the genitalia and what may be loaded then it's not the genitals. Commands in the Qur'an that exists in this problem is (recommended) to ornate and beautify the appearance in prayer.

Allah says:

"Son of man, wear beautiful clothes in each (entering) the mosque" (QS.Al-A 'raf: 31)

So different from the closing aurat ornate, therefore, people who pray are not ordered to close the aurat. Prophet sallAllahu'alaihi wasallam forbade men (who perform) prayers in a state dipundaknya none at all (cover) clothes, whereas men's shoulders for not aurat according kesepakaatan scholars. The head and her hair is not aurat for husbands and fathers and brothers mahramnya like men. Even so, he was not allowed to pray in front of her husband and the mahramnya with open head, her head was not even allowed to open even if he prays alone, no one saw it.

It can be seen from this that the woman who opens her prayers as a theorem that shows that the face not the aurat is not true. For in prayer there is a special law, as opposed to the law closes genitalia outside of prayer.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah rahimahullah have explained it by saying: "The woman then asked if the prayer itself with (wearing) Khimar (head covering), and in addition to prayer is permissible for him to open his head at home. Using jewelry in prayer is the right God, then no one was allowed to perform tawaf in the House (the condition) naked though alone at night. So do not be prayer in a naked condition although alone. From this it can be seen that wear jewelry in the prayer is not to cover up from the people. The provisions of each are different. People who pray may be ordered to shut down what may be disclosed outside of prayer, or may be disclosed in the prayer what is supposed to be hidden from men. The first was like a second shoulder, the Prophet sallAllahu'alaihi wasallam actually prohibit someone wearing an outfit that does not close his shoulder a bit. This is in prayer, (which) allowed both shoulders open to men outside of prayer. Likewise, independent woman, ordered to wear Khimar (head covering) in prayer. As word of the Prophet sallAllahu'alaihi wasallam "God does not accept the prayers which have been menstruating women (daughters) unless he is wearing Khimar (head covering)", but he was not ordered to wear Khimar (in front), her husband, and also in front of the mahramnya. Permissible for them to show the jewelry in for them but not allowed to open his head in prayer, both in front of them or the other.

The opposite of that, face, hands and both feet. Diboleh not revealed to others the strong opinion between two opinions (ulama). While not mandatory according to the scholars to close the deal, even allowed menampakkannya (face and both hands) in prayer according to the majority of scholars such as Abu Hanifa, Shafi'i, and apart from both, is also one of Ahmad's history. So is (are allowed to show) soles of the feet according to Abu Hanifah.

In general, has no provisions Demand nash, ijma (consensus scholars) that do not have to wear veils that cover him in prayer when he was in the house. However, if out (wearing the hijab). Then he can pray in her house even though visible face, both hands and both feet. As is the case when they first came out before commanded wearing the hijab. So the (legal) private parts in the prayer is not associated with the (legal) private parts in view.

Words of the jurists about the prayer in "Chapter Closes Aurat", there is no indication, either from the Prophet sallAllahu'alaih wasallam, nor from the Book and the Sunnah, that what is closed to the person who prays is aurat. Indeed, there is the word of God, "Put your clothes are beautiful in every (enter) the mosque", the Prophet forbade sallAllahu'alaihi wasallam tawaf Ka'bah in naked state, then pray more mainstream. He sallAllahu'alaihi wasallam was asked about praying with wearing a shirt, then he replied: "Or each of you (have) two-clothes?", And he says, relates to wear one shirt: "Had it widely, let wrapped (body) with him. If narrower, then make the gloves with him. " And he is also banned (prayers) by wearing a shirt that shoulders are not covered at all. This is (was) the proposition that the prayers were ordered closed as the thighs and other genitalia. Although we (men) are allowed to see it, If we take one opinion-that is one opinion of Ahmad-riyawat that the male genitalia (only), genitals, thighs therefore not the genitalia, which allow these men to see the thigh in a state not in prayer, thwaf. As for the prayer is not permissible for men opened her thighs, well who says he is aurat or not. Then not allowed thawaf naked. So he had to wear a dress in prayer, if narrowly made gloves, if widely dilipatkaan (to her). As if he was praying alone in the house, he'll have to close (thigh), according to the consensus of the scholars. If a person prays in the state of her thighs open while he is able to cover it with gloves, then this is not allowed. And should no longer differences (in this issue).

Who the (practice) with two history in private parts problem-as is done by some groups, then they are mistaken. Imam Ahmad was never mengataknnya, as well as (scholars), other, praying that someone can do (perform) prayers in this condition (open thighs). If Imam Ahmad ordered closed both shoulders, how could he allow her thighs open?

Indeed there are differences in the (problem) closed obligation for male genitalia that prayer alone. However, there is no difference if in prayer should wear clothes. Not allowed to pray in a state of nudity, even though he was able to wear clothes according to the consensus of the scholars. (Majmu al-Fataawa (22/113-117)

Ibn Qoyyim rahimahullah said: "Aurat that there are two (kinds), aurat aurat views and in prayer. Allowed a free man of prayer (in state) face and palms open, (but) not allowed out into the market and in places of gatherings of people. " (I'lamul-Muwaqi'in, 2 / 80)

Wallalhu'alam.

And Allaah knows best

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

When is it permissible for a woman to uncover her face?

When is it permissible for a woman to uncover her face?

Question :

We know that the most correct opinion among the scholars is that women should cover their faces, but there are many situations where women cannot cover their faces. Could you shed more light on this topic?
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Answers :

Praise be to Allaah.

The most correct opinion, which is supported by evidence, is that it is obligatory to cover the face, therefore young women are forbidden to uncover their faces in front of non-mahram men in order to avoid any mischief, and they should certainly do so when there is fear of fitnah (temptation).

On this basis, the fuqaha’ stated that in certain situations, women are permitted to uncover their faces in front of non-mahram men when it is necessary to do so, and it is permitted for those men to look at them, provided that this do not go beyond the bounds of what is necessary, because what is permitted on the grounds of necessity should not be exaggerated.

These special situations may be summed up as follows:

I – Proposal of marriage

It is permitted for a woman to uncover her face and hands in front of a man who wants to propose to her, so that he may see them, without being alone with her and without touching her, because the face gives an indication of ugliness or beauty, and the hands give an indication of whether the body is slender or plump (which in turn gives an impression about fertility).

Abu’l-Faraj al-Maqdisi said: “The scholars do not differ as to the permissibility of looking at the face… the focal point of beauty, the place one looks at…”

Many ahaadeeth indicate that it is permissible for a man to look at the woman to whom he is proposing marriage. Among them are the following:

Sahl ibn Sa’d (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “A woman came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, I came to give myself to you in marriage.’ So the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) looked at her, he raised his gaze and stared at her, then he lowered his head. When the woman saw that he had not made any decision, she sat down. Then a man from among his Companions stood up and said, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, if you don’t want to marry her, then marry her to me.’ …” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 7/19; Muslim, 4/143; al-Nisaa’i bi Sharh al-Suyooti, 6/113; al-Bayhaqi, 7/84).

Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “I was with the Prophet , and a man came to him and told him that he had married a woman of the Ansaar. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘Have you looked at her?’ He said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Go and look at her, for there is something in the eyes of the Ansaar.’” (Reported by Ahmad, 2/286, 299; Muslim, 4/142; al-Nisaa’i, 2/73).

Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When any one of you proposes marriage to a woman, if he can look at that which will encourage him to go ahead and marry her, let him do so.” (Reported by Abu Dawood and al-Haakim. Its isnaad is hasan, and there is corroborating evidence in the hadeeth of Muhammad ibn Muslimah. It was classed as saheeh by Ibn Hibbaan and al-Haakim. It was also reported by Ahmad and Ibn Maajah, and by Ahmad and al-Bazzaar from the hadeeth of Abu Humayd. Fath al-Baari, 9/181).

Al-Zayla’i said: “It is not permissible for him to touch her face or hands – even if he feels that no desire will be aroused by doing so – because it is haraam and there is no need to do so.” In Durar al-Bihaar it says: “It is not permissible for the qaadi, the witnesses or the groom to touch her, even if they feel that no desire will be aroused by doing so, because there is no need for that.” (Radd al-Muhtaar ‘ala’l-Durr al-Mukhtaar, 5/237).

Ibn Qudaamah said: “It is not permitted for him to be alone with her because she is still forbidden for him, and only a look is permitted, therefore being alone with her remains haraam, because there is no guarantee that he will not do something haraam if he is alone with her. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a [non-mahram] woman but the Shaytaan is the third one present with them.” He should not look at her in a lustful or suspicious manner. Ahmad said, according to a report narrated by Saalih: “He should look at the face, and he should not look in a lustful manner.”

The man may look at her repeatedly, checking her features, because the desired aim cannot be achieved in any other way.”

II – Business dealings

It is permitted for a woman to uncover her face and hands when buying or selling, and it is permitted for the vendor to see her face when he hands over the goods and asks for the money, provided that this will not lead to fitnah – otherwise it is forbidden.

Ibn Qudaamah said: “If a person deals with a woman when selling or renting, he may look at her face so he knows who she is, and may go back to her when the money is due (a guarantee of the price when the deal is finalized). It was reported that Ahmad said this was makrooh in the case of a young woman, but not in the case of an old woman, and in the case where there is fear of fitnah, or where there is no need for this business deal. But in cases where it is necessary, and there is no wrongful desire, then there is no harm in it.” (al-Mughni, 7/459; al-Sharh al-Kabeer ‘ala Matan al-Muqni’, 7/348 bi Haamish al-Mughni; al-Hidaayah ma’a Takmilat Fath al-Qadeer, 10/24).

Al-Dasooqi said: “ When testimony is given concerning a woman who wears niqaab (face-veil), she has to remove her niqaab. This applies in the case of marriage and other matters, such as selling, giving gifts, debts, power of attorney, and so on. This is the opinion favoured by our shaykh.” (Haashiyat al-Dasooqi ‘ala’l-Sharh al-Kabeer, 4/194).

III – Medical treatment

A woman is permitted to uncover the site of her illness whether it is on her face or elsewhere on her body, for a male doctor to treat her, on the condition that her husband or mahram is present, and if she cannot find a female doctor. It is less serious for her to be seen by a doctor of the same sex, and she should not be seen by a non-Muslim doctor if a Muslim doctor is available. Also, she should not uncover more than the site of the problem.

It is not permissible for the doctor to look at or touch more than is necessary, because the issue is one of necessity and should not be exaggerated.

Ibn Qudaamah said: “it is permissible for the doctor to look at whatever is necessary of her body, of her private parts and elsewhere, because there is a need for it to be uncovered.

It was reported that a boy who had stolen something was brought to ‘Uthmaan. He said, ‘Look at his groin (to see if he had pubic hair, which would indicate whether he had reached the age of puberty [and would therefore be considered to be a responsible adult] or not).’ They did not find any pubic hair, so they did not cut off his hand.” (Al-Mughni, 7/459; Ghidha’ al-Albaab, 1/97).

Ibn ‘Aabideen said: “He said in al-Jawharah: if the illness is in any part of her body apart from her private part, it is permitted (for the doctor) to look at it in order to treat it, because it is the matter of necessity. If the sickness is in her private part, he (the doctor) should teach a woman how to treat it. If there is nobody who can do that, and they fear that she may die or suffer unbearably, then they should cover all of her body except the site of the sickness, then a man may treat her, but he should avoid looking at her as much as he can, and look only at the site of the sickness that he is treating.” (Radd al-Muhtaar, 5/237. See also, al-Hidaayah al-‘Alaa’iyah, p. 245).

A similar ruling applies to one who is taking care of a sick person, even if it is someone of the opposite sex, when helping the patient with wudoo’ or istinja’ (washing the private parts after using the toilet). (See Ghidha’ al-Albaab, 1/97).

Muhammad Fu’aad said: “What indicates that it is permissible for a man to treat a woman – within the restrictions mentioned above – is the report narrated by Imaam al-Bukhaari with his isnaad from al-Rabee’ bint Mu’awwadh, who said: “We used to go out on military campaigns with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). We would bring water to the people and serve them, and bring the dead and wounded back to Madeenah.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6/80, 10/136. Fath al-Baari. A similar report was narrated from Anas by Muslim, 5/196; Abu Dawood, 7/205 ma’a ‘Awn al-Ma’bood; and al-Tirmidhi, 5/301-302, who said this is hasan saheeh)

Al-Bukhaari included this hadeeth under the chapter heading Baab hal yudaawi’l-rajul ul-mar’ah wa’l-mar’at ul-rajul? (Chapter: can a man treat a woman or a woman a man?). (Fath al-Baari, 10/136).

Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said: “The ruling that a man may treat a woman was derived from this by analogy; he (al-Bukhaari) did not confirm that, because it is possible that this referred to the time before hijaab was made obligatory, or that women used to take care of their husbands or mahrams on military campaigns. The ruling is that it is permissible for women to treat non-mahram men in cases of necessity, with as little looking and touching as possible.” (Fath al-Baari, 10/136)

IV – Testimony

It is permissible for a woman to uncover her face when she is giving testimony in court, whether she is a witness in a case or is there to witness a deal, and it is permissible for the qaadi (judge) to look at her in order to know who she is and to protect the rights of all concerned.

Shaykh al-Dardeer said: “It is not permitted to give testimony against a woman in niqaab until she uncovers her face so that it may be known who she is and what she looks like.” (Al-Sharh al-Kabeer li’l- Shaykh al-Dardeer, 4/194)

Ibn Qudaamah said: “The witness may look at the face of the woman against whom he is testifying so that his testimony will speak about her in specific terms. Ahmad said: ‘He cannot testify against a woman unless he knows who she is.’” (Al-Mughni, 7/459; al-Sharh al-Kabeer ‘ala Matan al-Muqni’, 7/348, bi haamish al-Mughni; al-Hidaayah ma’a Takmilat Fath al-Qadeer, 10/26).

V – In court cases

It is permissible for a woman to uncover her face in front of a qaadi (judge) who is to rule either in her favour or against her, and in this situation he may look at her face in order to know who she is and for the sake of protecting people’s rights.

The same rules that apply to giving testimony or bearing witness also apply in court cases, because they serve the same purpose. (See Al-Durar al-Mukhtaar, 5/237; Al-Hadiyah al-‘Alaa’iyah, p. 244; Al-Hadiyah ma’a Takmilat Fath al-Qadeer, 10/26).

VI – In front of mature boys who feel no physical desire

It is permissible – according to one of the two reports – for a woman to show in front of a mature boy who feels no physical desire what she shows in front of her mahrams, because he has no interest in women, and it is permissible for him to see all that.

Shaykh Abu’l-Faraj al-Maqdisi said: “The mature boy who feels no physical desire may see parts of a woman’s body above the navel and below the knee, according to one of the two reports, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meanings): ‘… there is no sin on you or on them to move about, - attending (helping) you each other…’ [al-Noor 24:58] and ‘And when the children among you come to puberty, then let them (also) ask for permission, as those senior to them (in age)…’ [al-Noor 24:59]. This indicates that there is a differentiation between those who have reached puberty and those who have not.”

Abu ‘Abd-Allaah said: “Abu Tayyibah did cupping for the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he was a boy.”

It was also reported that he said: “He is like the ajnabi (stranger, i.e., non-mahram), because he is like one who has reached puberty in the matter of physical desires, and this means that hijaab is required and it is forbidden to look. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): ‘… small children who have no sense of the shame of sex…’ [al-Noor 24:31]. As for small boys who are not mature, it is not necessary to cover in front of them at all.” (Al-Sharh al-Kabeer ‘ala Matan al-Muqni’, 7/349. See also Al-Mughni, 7/458 and Ghada’ al-Albaab, 1/97).

VII – The man who has no desire

It is permissible for a woman to show in front of a man who has no desire what she can show in front of her mahrams, because he has no interest in women, and he is allowed to see all of that. Ibn Qudaamah said: “Whoever no longer feels any desire, because of old age, impotence or incurable illness, or because he is a eunuch, … or a mukhannath (the effeminate man or a man who has female hormones) who feels no desire, the ruling that applies to such a man is the same as the ruling that applies to mahrams regarding looking at women, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): ‘… or old male servants who lack vigour…’ [al-Noor 24:31], i.e., those who feel no desire for women.” Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “This is the one of whom women do not feel shy.” He also said: “This is the mukhannath who is impotent (i.e., cannot have an erection).”

It was reported that Mujaahid and Qutaadah said: “This is the one who has no interest in women, but if he is a mukhannath who feels desire and knows about women, then the rules that apply to others apply also to him, because ‘Aa’ishah said: ‘A mukhannath entered upon the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and they used to think that he was a man who felt no physical desires, but the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) entered upon us when this man was describing a woman and saying ‘When she comes in, she comes on four, and when she goes out, she goes on eight.’ The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Do I not see that this man knows who is here? This one should never enter upon you.’ And he was kept away after that.” (Reported by Abu Dawood and others).

Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr said: “The mukhannath is not only the one who is known to be promiscuous. The mukhannath is the one who looks so much like a woman physically that he resembles women in his softness, speech, appearance, accent and thinking. If he is like this, he would have no desire for women and he would not notice anything about them. This is one of those who have no interest in women who were permitted to enter upon women. Do you not see that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not prevent that mukhannath from entering upon his wives at first, but when he heard him describing the daughter of Ghaylaan and realized that he knew about women, he commanded that he should be kept away.” (Al-Mughni, 7/463; al-Sharh al-Kabeer ‘ala Matan al-Muqni’, 7/347-348).

IX – Old women who are past marriageable age

Old women who are past marriageable age may uncover their faces and what usually appears in front of non-mahram men, but it is still better for them to remain covered.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And as for women past child-bearing who do not expect wedlock, it is no sin on them if they discard their (outer) clothing in such a way as not to show their adornment. But to refrain (i.e., not to discard their outer clothing) is better for them…” [al-Noor 24:60]. Ibn Qudaamah said: “In the case of old women who are past marriageable age, there is nothing wrong if they show what ordinarily appears, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning), ‘And as for women past child-bearing who do not expect wedlock…’ [al-Noor 24:60].” Ibn ‘Abbaas said concerning the aayahs (interpretation of the meanings), “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze…” [al-Noor 24:30] and “Tell the believing women to lower their gaze…” [al-Noor 24:31]: “Old women who no longer expect to get married were exempted from this. The same exemption also applied to women who are deformed and are not desirable.” (Al-Mughni, 7/463; al-Sharh al-Kabeer ‘ala Matan al-Muqni’, 7/347-348).

X – Uncovering the face in front of kaafir women

The scholars have differed concerning how a Muslim woman should appear in front of kaafir women.

Ibn Qudaamah said: “The ruling concerning women dealing with women is the same as that concerning men dealing with men. There is no difference between Muslims, and no difference between a Muslim woman and a dhimmi (non-Muslim living under Muslim rule) woman, just as there is no difference between two Muslim men or between a Muslim man and a dhimmi man when it comes to seeing. Ahmad said: ‘Some people think that she should not take off her head covering in front of a Jewish or Christian woman. However, I think that she (a Jewish or Christian woman) should not see the private part (of a Muslim woman), or attend her when she gives birth (i.e., she should not be her midwife, because she will look at the most private part of her body when she gives birth – except in cases of necessity, as discussed above).’”

Another opinion was reported from Ahmad, according to which a Muslim woman should not remove her niqaab in front of a dhimmi woman, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “… or their women …” [al-Noor 24:31]. But the first opinion is more correct, because kaafir women, Jewish and others, used to enter upon the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and they did not wear hijaab in front of them nor were they commanded to do so. ‘Aa’ishah said that a Jewish woman used to come and talk to her, saying “May Allaah save you from the punishment of the grave,” and she [‘Aa’ishah] asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)… Asma’ said, “My mother came to me, and she had no desire to become Muslim. I asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), ‘Should I uphold the ties of kinship with her?’ and he said, ‘Yes.’”

Moreover, hijaab between men and women serves a purpose that is not an issue in the case of a Muslim woman and a dhimmi woman, just as it is not an issue in the case of a Muslim man and a dhimmi man. Hijaab is obligatory when there is a text stating that it is so or the obligation may be understood by analogy; in the case of a Muslim woman and a non-Muslim woman, there is neither text nor analogy.

The aayah “… or their women …” [al-Noor 24:31] could refer to all women. (Al-Mughni, 7/464; al-Sharh al-Kabeer ‘ala Matan al-Muqni’, 7/351 bi haamish al-Mughni).

Ibn al-‘Arabi al-Maaliki said: “The correct view, in my opinion, is that this permissible in the case of all women, and that it appears with the pronoun ( -hinna = their) to match the rest of the aayah. This is the aayah of pronouns, where the pronoun -hinna appears twenty-five times; there is nothing else like it in the Qur’aan. So this word matches the others.” (Ahkaam al-Qur’aan, 3/326).

Al-Aloosi said: “Al-Fakhr al-Raazi suggested that the dhimmi woman is like the Muslim woman, and he said: “The correct opinion is that she (the dhimmi woman) is like the Muslim woman, and ‘their women’ means all women. The opinion of the salaf (early generations of Islam) should be understood on the basis that (covering in front of non-Muslim women) is preferable, but it is not obligatory.” Then he said: “This view is easier for people today, for Muslim woman can hardly observe hijaab in front of dhimmi women.” (Tafseer al-Aloosi, 19/143).

Muhammad Fu’aad said: “If this opinion was easier in their time, then no doubt it is more appropriate and easier in our own time, especially for those women who, because of circumstances beyond their control, find that they have to live in non-Muslim countries, where they mix with non-Muslim women and their lives are interwoven with theirs, to the extent that observing hijaab in front of them is fraught with difficulties. Truly, to Allaah we belong, and truly, to Him we shall return.”

XI – Hajj and ‘Umrah

Women must uncover their faces and hands when they enter ihraam for Hajj or ‘Umrah. At this time, they are forbidden to wear niqaab and gloves, because the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The woman who is in ihraam must not wear niqaab or gloves.”

If a woman needs to cover her face because men are passing close by her, or she is beautiful and is sure that men are looking at her, she should drop a part of head covering over her face, because of the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah in which she said, “Riders were passing by us, and we were in ihraam with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), so when they came near, each of us would lower her jilbaab over her face, and when they went away we would uncover our faces again.”

Al-Juzayri said, reporting from them: “A woman may cover her face for a necessary reason, such as non-mahram men passing close by her, and the fact that (the cloth) will touch her face does not matter. This is to make it easy and alleviate hardship.” (Al-Fiqh ‘ala’l-Madhaahib al-Arba’ah, 1/645).

These are situations in which it is acceptable for a woman to uncover her face and hands, explained in detail by the fuqaha’ and scholars. But there is one other situation which deserves our attention, and that is when a Muslim woman is forced to uncover her face – what is the ruling in this case?

XII – Compulsion

Some oppressive regimes have instituted harsh laws which go against the religion of Islam and rebel against Allaah and His Messenger. These laws prevent Muslim women from wearing proper hijaab, and some of them even remove their niqaab by force and subject them to the worst type of oppression and persecution.

Women who wear niqaab have been subjected to harassment in certain European countries, where they have been subjected to harm, and Islam and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) have been slandered.

Therefore, when a woman is certain that she is likely to be subjected to unbearable harassment, she is permitted to uncover her face. It is better to follow a scholarly opinion which is less correct than to expose herself to trouble at the hands of evil men.

If a woman is permitted to uncover her face and hands in the situations described above, which do not involve force or harassment, then surely it is more likely that she is permitted to uncover them when she is faced with a threat to herself and her religion, especially when her niqaab may expose her to tormentors who may pull the hijaab from her head or subject her to worse abuse. In cases of necessity, things that are ordinarily forbidden are permitted, within the limits of what is strictly necessary, as the scholars have stated, but this should not lead one to take the matter of covering the face lightly. Each woman must evaluate the situation in which she is living and learn from her own experience and that of others, so that she will be sure of what is a case of real necessity, as opposed to her own whims and weaknesses.

Although women are permitted to uncover their faces and hands in the exceptional situations described above, they are not permitted to wear make-up and visible jewellery if they do so. It is forbidden for them to display these things in front of non-mahram men, according to all the fuqaha’, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “… and not to show off their adornment…” [al-Noor 24:31], and because there is no need to do so. (Hijaab al-Muslimah bayna Intihaal wa Ta’weel al-Jaahileen, p. 239).

We ask Allaah to reform the Muslims. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
Hijaab al-Muslimah bayna Intihaal wa Ta’weel al-Jaahileen, p. 239

Monday, April 4, 2011

Muslim Converts Wear Hijab

Muslim Converts Wear Hijab
Adis Duderija- ( http://blog.naseeb.com/2008/01/why-muslim-converts-wear-hijab/)

Sally Neighbour in her article 'Secret Unveiled' (Feature Article in “The Australian, Wednesday ,October 3rd,p.15) tells us a story of a young Muslim convert, Umm Zainab (her adopted name), who is wearing a niqab (head and face veil) and why for Umm Zainab wearing a niqab is a “liberating experience”. She describes some of the daily life experiences, often in a form of verbal abuse, and the tensions that arise from, when women like Umm Zainab, (a resident in the Sydney’s suburb of Lakemba with a large Muslim community presence) decide to go out in the public.

Both the author and the interviewer make several controversial statements based on a number of interpretational assumptions , about the meaning, function and the status of the (face) veil in the Islamic tradition that they are probably not even aware of. As someone who studies these issues academically and with great interest I would like to address some of these statement in light of the broader Islamic tradition. Before I do so I would like to contextualise the recent increased incidence and presence of hijab ( headcovering excluding the face) and niqab wearing western Muslim women , especially young Muslim women, converts or not.

As part of my research I have come across mounting evidence indicating that young western-born Muslim women are increasingly adopting a more explicitly Islamic dress including the hijab and niqab. This also holds true for Muslim women living in Australia. Studies also suggest that for western-born young Muslim women, wearing a veil seems to play a decisive role in construction of new Western Muslim identities. These trends could be traced back to Western Muslims’ new immigrant religious minority status and the broader geo-political context which facilitate their identity construction along predominantly religious lines. Empirical research on western Muslim women tells us that there are a number of reasons as to why Muslim women adopt the wearing of hijab and/or niqab. These range from those of opposition to inherited ethnic culture to racialised discourses of exclusion , from wearing it as a symbol of political protest/resistance (usually in the form of political Islam) to it being sign of moral purity, from that of indicating strong commitment to religious identity to that of being a tool of security in unfamiliar, potentially threatening environments as well as many others.

Sally Neighbour in her article relates to us several incidents in which tensions between Umm Zainab and the non- Muslim people on the streets of Lakemba flared up. This comes to the author of this article as no surprise as it merely confirms existing research findings conducted in many Western countries ( such as USA, Canada, and Western Europe) identifying several religiously justified practices among some western Muslims that responsible for creating a sense of separateness between some members of Muslim and non-Muslim communities that provide obstacles towards meaningful participation of some Muslims, especially some Muslim women, in the broader western society and a healthy interaction between Muslim and non-Muslim communities (And I am not suggesting that it there are no western practices that do the same but my focus here is no Muslim practices). Apart from the practice of veiling (hijab and or niqab), practices existing among some Muslim communities such as mushrooming of Muslim private schools as parallel educational systems, sexual regulation of Muslim women through early marriage and pressures to discourage Muslim women from working in gender mixed employment settings (resulting in their complete dependence on the male members of their family such as fathers, husbands or brothers) are also mentioned.

Umm Zainab claims that the reason why she wears a hijab is based upon the practice of the salaf (or the first three generations of Muslims) and that Prophet Muhammad’s wives adopted this practice and as such she wishes to emulate them as her role models. Sally Neighbour adds to this by saying that these women “subscribe to a pure and literal meaning of the Koran that declares ‘tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their veils all over juyubihinna’, a term that refers to the body, face neck and bosom.” Let us examine the validity of these claims.

The phrase of being followers of the salaf or as-salaf as–salih (“the righteous predecessors”) has throughout the Muslim history up until the present been used by a number of different Muslim political and theological groups in order to delegitimise the claims of the Muslim “other” and imbibe own views with an aura of legitimacy based upon their assertions of being the sole custodians of “pure” and unadulterated teachings of the primary sources of the Islamic teachings, namely Qur’an and Sunnah. Foremost amongst these are so called , self-labelled Salafis or Ahl-hadith Muslims. Their approach to interpretation of Qur’an and Sunnah as I have shown in one of my publications, among other methodological flaws and epistemologically weak arguments, is based upon a completely literal and decontextualised understanding of these two sources.

Furthermore, as I demonstrated in my honours thesis, the ahl-hadith or “salafi’ claims to be the followers of the as-salaf as-salih in relation to how they understand the nature and the scope of the concept of Sunnah (or the prophet’s commentary and the embodiment of the Qur’anic teachings) , such as Umm Zainab and those whose classes she attends, amount to, nothing more then wishful thinking as they adhere to a distorted and incorrect understanding of the concept of Sunnah as it was(most likely) understood by the first three generations of Muslims.

The Qur’anic text ( not mentioned in the article) that is used to argue that Prophet’s wives used to wear a niqab , is found in the 33 chapter ,verse 53. It instructs men to, when wishing to talk to Prophet’s wives do so from behind a curtain ( hijab) as it is purer for their hearts and that of the Prophet’s women. Firstly, this verse does not use the word niqab but hijab which in this context means a curtain. Secondly, as prominent Muslim sociologist and academic Fatima Mernissi has lucidly and masterfully demonstrated in her book “The Veil and the Male Elite(Perseus Books, 1991) the Qur’anic verse “descended” to put a barrier between two men not a man and a woman! Namely, the context behind this revelation, according to traditional texts, is the bedroom of the wedded pair ( i.e. Prophet Muhammad and his wife Zainab) wishing to protect their intimacy and exclude a third person ( a person called Anas ibn Malik-one of the Prophet's Companions). In short the occasion behind the revelation according to traditional accounts ( in form of hadith with several versions) is that on the wedding night the Prophet was not able to rid himself of several tactless guests who remained lost in conversation during the wedding supper while the he wanted to be alone with Zainab on the first wedding night. After several attempts to indirectly let the men know that it was time they left by walking out of his house into his courtyard , according to the witness Anas ibn Malik , the Prophet recited the verse in question. Upon pronouncing the verse, the Prophet drew the sitr ( hadith uses this synonym of the word hijab also meaning curtain) between himself( and his wife) and Anas! How this verse can be understood to require women to wear a niqab remains unclear.

The reader is also left with the impression that the Qur’anic verse used to argue for adoption of niqab/and hijab quoted above requires believing Muslim women not only to wear a hijab ( head cover) but also that of niqab ( face veil). This is based upon the premise that a “pure and literal reading of the Koran” and the operative word “juyubihinna” as Neighbour puts it ( undoubtedly based upon her and probably Umm Zainab’s profound ignorance not only of the Qur’anic Arabic and the complexity and the plurivocality of the juristic debates and voices that have been generated by previous communities of interpretation in relation to this verse and the word in question) ,means nothing less then a complete covering not only of woman’s hair but also of the body,face,neck and bosom. Those who are well grounded in the Islamic tradition , such as Professor Khalid Abou El Fadl , a contemporary leading Islamic jurist , have exposed the intellectual dishonesty in the translations appearing in many Qur’anic translation of the Qur’an coming from S.Arabia or those which were funded by their petrodollars such as the one co-authored by professors at the Univeristy of Medina with a certificate of authentification and approval by the late ‘Abd al-‘Aziz Bin Bazz ,the head of the Ministry for Islamic Research ,Legal Opinions, Preaching and Guidance (Idarat al-Buhuth al-‘Ilmiyya wa al-Ifta’ wa al-da’wa wa al-Irshad ) who did not know a word of English yet authenticated the text nonetheless. This what prof El-Fadl refers to as the ‘Trojan Horse” translation is found in many Muslim bookstores and in many English speaking Islamic centres. The title of the translation is :”Interpretation of the Meanings of the Noble Qur’an in the English Language: A Summarised Version of At-Tabari,al-Qurtubi and Ibn Kathir With Comments from Sahih al-Bukhari ( famous collection of narratives that are traced back to the Prophet and which according to traditional Muslim scholarship form the backbone of Sunnah) in One Volume. Many Muslims , especially but not only converts due to their unfamiliarity with the actual Qur’anic Arabic exclusively rely and depend on these and similar translations for their understanding of meaning of the Qur’an. In his book “The Conference of the Books” The Search for Beauty in Islam”( University of America Press,2001) professor El-Fadl exposes the meddling with the meaning of the Qur’anic Arabic text in the above quoted Qur’anic text translation by the use of parenthetical interjections which purport to ‘clarify ‘ the meaning of the translated text as an natural elaboration on the intended meaning of the Qur’anic text /verses. The verse quoted in the article is found in a chapter called Al-Ahzab ( 33) verse 59 . The translation of the text in the above S. Arabian produced version is as follows :

O Prophet ! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to drew their cloaks( veils) all over their bodies ( i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better ,that they should be known ( as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed/And Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving ,Most Merciful.

EL Fadl’s commentary of this translation is as follows; “The authors assert that God’s command is that women should cloak themselves in a large veil ,and cover everything except one or two eyes. The authors liberately equate a cloak to a veil and , according to them, God explicitly mandates that the cloaks or veil be drawn over a woman’s entire body.”

Professor El-Fadl further maintains that a literal and conservative meaning of the verses would read

O Prophet ! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to Lower ( or possible , draw upon themselves) their garments. That is better so that they will not be known or molested. And God is forgiving and merciful.

The operative word in this verse are yudnina ‘alayhinna min jalabibihinna. It could mean , according to professor El-Fadl as either ‘lower their garments” or “draw their garments closer to their bodies”. Jalabibihinna literally means “their garments” and not a veil . A jilbab ( a singular for jalabib) is a garment like a dress or Arab robe which has stiches and threads . Chador ( worn by many women in Iran and Iraq) or ‘abaya ( worn in S.Arabia) is a single piece of cloth and , according to El-Fadl, would not qualify as a jilbab. Yudnina means, literary, to bring closer or to lower something in this case a garb. According to El Fadl this verse can be interpreted to require the covering of the legs, or a more vigilant covering of the torso ,or simply, modesty, but it does not support the above given translation by Medinian professors as requiring the covering of everything except one or two eyes and hands.

There are a number of different views on the meaning of the verse in question as found in the opinions of early Muslim jurists. Some claimed that it mandates covering of the legs or bosom. Majority maintained that it requires the covering of the full body except the face ,hands and feet. A minority view asserted that the verse requires women to cover their faces. However, the reports upon which these views were based are not consistent. Importantly, nearly all commentators agreed that this verse was revealed to protect women from verbal/physical abuse as there was a group of young and corrupt men in Medina who harassed and molested women at night .These men , apparently wanted to target only slave women and not free women. A jilbab-wearing woman was considered to be a free person thus was not molested while non-jilbab wearing slave women were considered to be legitimate targets. Therefore, a minority held that the reason behind this revelation was to distinguish between free and slave women ( 7th century Arabia was a slave –owning society and economy). Therefore, the verse did not have a religious connotation to it and did not imply religious obligation.
The meaning of another verse, not mentioned in the article, Chapter 24 , verse 31 has been meddled with by the same authors of the translation. Using the same techniques (i.e. parenthesis interjection) as in the previous verse , the translators translate the verse in a following manner :

…And tell the believing women to lower their gaze( from looking at forbidden things) ,and protect their private parts( from illegal sexual acts etc.) and not to show their adornments except only that which is apparent ( like palms of hands or one or both eyes for necessity to see the way , or outer dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron) and to draw their veils all over juyubihhina (their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms etc) and not to reveal their adornments except to their husbands, their fathers,…..

But according to El-Fadl, a literal and more honest translation of the verse would be :

And say to the believing women to lower their gaze, and guard their private parts and that they should not display their adornments except what ordinarily appear. And that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and that they should not display their beauty except to their husbands….

The operative words are khimar and jayb ( pl. juyub). The Qur’anic arabic instructs women to wal yadribna bi khumurihinna ‘ala juyubihinna which means that they should take their khimar and strike with it or place it upon their bosoms. According to the authoritative lexicon of Lisan al-‘Arab a khimar is a piece of cloth worn on the head by men or women such as a turban. A jayb is the bosom of a human being or also where the neck and chest meet or the beginning of the cleavage areas on a woman’s chest. According to Islamic jurists khimar was worn by women in pre-Islamic times and it was customarily thrown toward the back leaving the head and chest exposed. Thus, argues El-Fadl, the verse suggests to instruct that a piece of cloth normally worn on the head or neck ( khimar) be made to cover the bosom or descend down to the point of touching the cloth. Importantly Qur’anic commentators repeatedly highlighted the habit of women in Mecca and Medina to expose all or most of their chests , even if their hair was covered. Based on this one could interpret these verse to ask women to cover their chests. The word khimar can , however, never be interpreted to demand covering of face and/or hands. The Qur’anic verse does not refer to the face in any way.

The translators also resort to using extra-Qur’anic evidence in form of narrations ( ahadith) reportedly going back to Prophet Muhammad ( the body of knowledge that suffers from a number of methodological and epistemological weaknesses as recognised by traditional Islamic sciences) such as one found in a collection by an eminent hadith collector (for Sunni Muslims anyway) Bukhari ( volume 6. number 282) in which Prophet’s wife ‘Aisha is again mistakenly translated as having said that upon the revelation of the Qur’anic verse 24: 31 quoted above women took pieces torn from their garments and wore them as khimar. In another version of the same report we are told only the migrant women from Mecca ( who came to Medina to seek refuge from religious prosecution) were quick to comply whilst the other version says it was the women from Medina who did so. Whatever the case might be the most one can deduce from this narration is that women covered their heads but not the face. As such not wearing a niqab has nothing to do with what Umm Zainab refers to as “ compromising our religion”. Niqab has never compromised Islamic tradition as it has never been its integral part!

It is extremely important to understand, as I demonstrated elsewhere, that in order to consider something to be in accordance with Qur’an and Sunnah teaching , apart from contextualisation , a number of other interpretational considerations needs to be taken into account such as: how the interpreter views the role and the scope of reason in interpretation,; interpretational mechanisms governing the process of derivation of meaning, whether or not a distinction between socio-culturally contingent aspects and universalistic aspects of these teachings are acknowledged, what the interpreter’s assumption is regarding the nature of the dynamics between morality and law and many other considerations!

It is also important to note that those who advocate the practice of niqab as being Islamic also advocate other practices such as gender segregation, women’s near complete seclusion from public life ( including the completely absurd rule that argues for impermissibility of hearing a woman’s voice in a gender mixed setting which is considered as sexually enticing to Muslim men) or women’s complete dependence on the whims of their husbands who can even prevent them from visiting their own parents even for the purposes of attending their funeral. As such, as I argued elsewhere proponents of these practices completely distort the normative construct of a female Muslim woman image that is all too often unquestioningly accepted as Islamic. One could legitimately ask the question as to why Umm Zainab and those who subscribe to same views on the niqab do not follow these injunctions as well?

That would take us however, too far from the main point of this article. We need to understand that all these views are based on a particular view of female sexuality, as found in some hadith( most of which have been classified as ‘weak’ according to mainstream traditional hadith criticism sciences but which nevertheless are considered probative on issues of morality, ethics and theology not only among salafi minded Muslims like Umm Zainab but even more broadly) that consider women to be sources of moral and social chaos if they appear in public spaces as their bodies are inherently sexually corrupting. These views are not founded on Qur’an and Sunnah teachings.

These are the remnants of the deeply patriarchal and misogynist culture that was prevalent at the time of the Qur’anic revelation whose most insidious elements Qur’an and the Prophet’s practice partially abolished and whose misogyny they mitigated. It is ironic, in this sense, to note that Umm Zainab accuses Muslim immigrant women that the real reason why they do not wear a niqab is based on them being “intimidated” and that unlike immigrant Muslim women , converts "do not have the cultural baggage”. Little does Umm Zainab realise that she herself by choosing to wear a niqab, is perpetuating cultural practices prevalent in 8th and 9th century Persia as this is the time when high social class Muslim women adopted the practice of wearing niqabs!

Umm Zainab maintains further that wearing a niqab is a “liberating experience” because “people have to take you for who you are, not for your body or your beauty.” One cannot but wonder how views which advocate for women’s complete anonymity, lack of women’s voice (literally and metaphorically) and erasure from all public life and decision making can be seen as liberating! I am not suggesting though that the consumerist culture Umm Zainab refers to is any better! Indeed, both of them are premised on the objectification of women’s bodies and their over-exaggerated sexuality and sexual potency.

However, the views espoused by Umm Zainab and well meaning reporter Sally Neighbour do not come out of the blue! The provenance and propagation of these narrow views is to be found in those whose Islamic classes Umm Zainab and many others attend. Now, while the Islamic tradition has always accommodated a number of different views and opinions on a particular topic the problem is that those who instruct Muslim converts like Umm Zainab market their views as being the only truly Islamic teachings. They do not disclose the full spectrum and the full breadth of the Islamic tradition to them so that they are in a better position to make an informed judgement. This amounts to no less then bigotry! It is the responsibility of every Muslim to add their own voices to the debate on discourse surrounding Muslims in order to show the diversity and the ethico-moral beauty of the Islamic tradition that can be. A number of Western and non-western Muslim intellectuals have already done so, yet few Muslims are aware of them (See, for example, O.Safi’s ( ed.) Progressive Muslims, Oneworld, 2003) It is also the responsibility of every Muslim to do their utmost best to try to alleviate the tensions that might exist between Muslims and show them the beauty of Islamic ethics by meaningfully interacting and participating in broader society without loosing or compromising their religious identity. There are no religious obstacles as to why that could not be the case!

Sunday, April 3, 2011

His Wife Does Not Want To Wear Hijaab

His Wife Does Not Want To Wear Hijaab And He Fears For His Young Daughter

Question:
My wife is not wearing Hijab although she is a strong beleiver and practicing all Salats on time etc. We are both Engineers and we have 2 young daughters (2 and 5 Years. I am worried that my children will also go away from wearing hijab if they see their mother not wearing it as well. I've tried many times to convince her to put it (she has read the relevant sourates) but I've stopped doing that when I felt that she would reject whatever she was already on. My question is as a husband and father, shall I force her to wear it anyway to preserve the future of the daughters or shall I keep patient untill Allah guides her? My second question is are we (the husbands) responsible in front of Allah regarding weather or not our wives / daughters wear hijab or not?

Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.
Strong faith must have effects which can be seen in a person's appearance and conduct. If a person persists in sin, this is a sign of weak faith.

 What you have to do is try to plant the seeds of faith in her heart and help it to grow strong. What is meant by that is the kind of faith that will motivate a person to behave in accordance with the sharee’ah. Then try to instill in her a love of the hijaab and of righteous deeds, such as explaining the benefits of hijaab and how good it is, and giving her books and audio tapes, if these are available, which speak about that. One of the most important means which will help to achieve this is to put her in touch – in an indirect manner – with righteous women who wear the hijaab and try to have frequent family gatherings with righteous relatives.

If you do this, you will have tried various means of convincing her. Then you will have to oblige her in an appropriate fashion and not allow her to go out to public places without hijaab. (It is important to explain to your daughter that hijaab is obligatory and tell her about Allaah’s ruling on hijaab, even if she realizes that her mother is falling short. You have to explain it to her at a level that she can understand so that she will see that there is a difference between the rulings of sharee’ah and the way her mother is behaving. Who knows – perhaps she will advise her mother, in the moving and innocent manner of children – to wear hijaab).

 With regard to the second question, there is no doubt that fathers are responsible if their wives and daughters do not wear hijaab and do not adhere to the rulings of sharee’ah, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones” [al-Tahreem 66:6]

And as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock… the man is a shepherd over the members of his household and is responsible for his flock…”

But if a person does all that he can and strives his utmost, but does not achieve any results, Allaah will excuse him and will not punish him; on the contrary, He will reward him for his efforts, and Allaah does not cause the reward for any good deed to be lost.

Written by Shaykh Muhammad al-Duwaysh

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Why do Muslim Women Wear a Veil or a Hijab?

Why do Muslim Women Wear a Veil or a Hijab?

"Why Do You Wear that Thing on Your Head?" Answered

I’ve worn the hijab, or veil, over my head and across my shoulders for as long as I can remember. My parents encouraged me to feel comfortable with it ever since I was two years old and wanting to mimic my mother,
 even though it isn’t mandatory for girls to wear the hijab until they reach puberty. I didn’t wear it all the time when I was small, but as I grew older—as I learned to fold, tuck, and pin it myself—it became natural to me.

As a young African American Muslim, I was raised with many other young Muslims from all races, colors and cultural backgrounds in a close-knit Islamic community. I learned that wearing hijab was right, was normal, was what God wants. I remained content with what my parents and community taught me throughout elementary. By the time I entered high school, I had come to understand by watching the non-Muslim American society, especially the workings of its male-female interactions, that wearing the hijab is the best choice for any woman, for several compelling reasons.

Man is not reminded of God when he looks at Woman’s body. He is reminded of his sexual instinct as a man, no matter what he says, or thinks he feels. The same is true for women at the sight of men. Since Man does not always understand the nature of Woman, has always dominated society, and has never been forced to consider Woman as genuine competition on any level, he has now begun to work with women toward his own ends, and convinces her that her compliance with his rules are the rights she has been fighting for. The new “rights” force Woman to play every role she takes on by Man’s rules. In some cases this denies her the needs, personal goals and pleasures that only women can understand. When she protests, Man tells her that being fleeced of her femininity is to her advantage or to the society’s advantage, depending on which rationale appeals to her. - www.associatedcontent.com

Beginning to Wear Hijab

Beginning to Wear Hijab

By A Revert Muslim Sister who dorns Hijab

One of the most difficult decisions many Muslim sisters face is the decision to start wearing hijab. This is certainly true for reverts, but may also be true for sisters whose families or even whose cultures are not particularly observant. As a revert myself, I have been through the whole thing. I would like to offer some advice that I hope inshallah will be helpful to sisters who are considering wearing hijab but find that something is holding them back.

The first step is to learn about hijab. There is so much information out there. Many Muslim sisters who will assist you in this regard.

Deciding to wear Hijab

This is where the difficulties usually come in. For many sisters, it truly is a jihad. I remember very vividly how scared I was the first day I put on the headscarf and went out into public. As long as you are just wearing the modest clothes, nobody has to know that you are a Muslim. Once you complete your hijab with the headscarf, you are suddenly announcing to everyone who sees you that "I am a Muslim". Here is some advice based on my own experiences.
Wear it for the sake of Allah SWT

Various statements are made about why you should wear hijab, such as for modesty or for protection, but the real reason that we wear hijab is that Allah SWT has commanded it. Whenever anyone asks you, why do you dress like that, that's the only answer you need to give them.

Allah SWT is the source of everything we have, our existence, our life, our capability, even our goodness. If He ever stopped sustaining us, we would vanish in that instant. If He ever took away what he gives us, we would never have even a speck of it. If we worked for millions of years, we could never repay Him for all that He has given us. And yet He does give it to us, and all He asks in return is that we do our best to obey what He has commanded us. Surely wearing hijab is a very small thing that you can do for Him compared to what He does for you!

Wear it for the hope of Jannah

Allah SWT makes tests for us in this world. He makes things difficult for us. He wants to see if we will remember Him, if we will have faith in Him, and if we will trust in Him. These qualities are what is meant by "sabr".
Allah SWT does not lose the work of anyone, ever (see Surah Ali Imran ayah 195). Even if it seems like nobody is paying attention to you or notices or appreciates good things that you do, Allah SWT has seen them, and He will not forget them. Even when it seems like the whole world is against you, Allah SWT is always there for you when you turn to Him. Remember this.

Allah SWT always wants the best for us and in His wisdom He knows why each thing that happens to us is in fact best for us. When it seems like everything is going wrong and life is just one disaster after another, it is easy to forget this and to become bitter and skeptical. Yet we must remember always to have faith that Allah SWT knows best why He has willed this for us, and we must always ask Him only "Make me pleased with what You have willed for me".
This world we live in, although it seems at times to be the only real thing, is actually fleeting compared to the Hereafter, which is better and more abiding. The trials of this world will seem as fleeting as a nightmare when seen from the Hereafter, and the pleasures of this world will also seem as fleeting as a dream when seen from the Hereafter. It's our happiness in the Hereafter that we should be most worried about attaining, because it is what will last forever; and it's our suffering in the Hereafter that we should be most worried about avoiding, because it also will last forever.

Allah SWT has promised Jannah to those who remain steadfast in their faith in Him and who trust in Him. The more difficult it is for you to have sabr, the greater the reward for it. So what will it be? Ease in this world, and perhaps the eternal sufferings in Hell? Or difficulty in this world, and inshallah the eternal bliss of Jannah? Let's face it, the old cliches are true: there's no such thing as a free lunch and you can almost never have your cake and eat it too. We've all got to face difficulties some time. Better by far that they be in the world than in the Hereafter.
So that's what you should set your mind to. Yes, it's difficult to wear hijab. You may be rejected by your family or your friends, you may face harassment and persecution or be fired from your job. These are very scary thoughts. But if you have sabr and keep trusting in Allah SWT, I swear to you sister, this is the path to Jannah, and when you look back on the Day of Qiyamah you will know that it was worth it and have no regrets.


Wear it today and trust in Allah SWT for tomorrow


What do I mean by that? What I mean is that you should take it one day at a time, or even one outing at a time. Sometimes the future seems to stretch on forever and ever and you don't think you can make it that long. You want to give up before you even begin.

So sometimes the best thing to do is to keep you mind focused on what is immediately at hand. Allah SWT will take care of the future. If you have to go out to the market, then concentrate on being able to wear hijab just for this activity and on getting through it. If you do get through it and nothing bad happened, then give thanks to Allah SWT for making it easy for you, and turn your mind to your next outing.

Or if you have to go out to school or work, then concentrate on being able to wear hijab just for this one day and on getting through it. And give thanks to Allah SWT when you have made it, and turn your mind to the next day.
Eventually the outings will turn into days and the days into weeks, and the weeks into months. One day you will realize that you have been wearing hijab for quite a long time and it isn't really as bad as you feared, and Allah SWT helped you get through it. Don't be ashamed. Sometimes it is like this. The most important thing is to have sabr and keep your trust in Allah SWT always.


Wear it and spite the shaytan


My dear sister, the worries and fears in your mind are the whisperings of the shaytan. He wants to talk you out of obeying Allah SWT.

It is very easy to keep going around in circles in your mind and to dwell on all the things that could go wrong. I know that I myself have a tendency to do this, I put it off and I dither and I wait for "the perfect time". If I let myself, I would never do anything at all!

So the thing you have to remember is that you do not need to be perfect in iman to wear hijab. If perfection were a qualification, where is the sister who could wear it??

You must also not fall into the trap of thinking that you should wait until all your worries and fears have disappeared. They never will! Trust me on this, sister.

True courage is going ahead to do what's right even though you are still nervous and scared. So don't listen to the shaytan. Ignore the worries and fears he whispers into your mind. Tell him that you will not let him keep you from obeying Allah SWT and you will not let him rule your life.

Make the decision to wear it
Once you have come to know in your heart that you must wear hijab, then you have to set a day and


JUST DO IT !!


This is the only way. Set a day and when that day comes, you have to do it. Don't back down. Don't give up. Do it.


Offer salat al-istikhara. Make du'a. Make lots of du'a. Do not stop making du'a. Ask Allah SWT to give you strength. Ask Him to make it easy for you. Ask Him to help you. He will, I swear it to you. He is always there for you when you turn to Him. Remember how much He has given you, how everything that you have, even your very existence, is due to Him. Remember that He deserves this from you. Remember the promise of Jannah. Remember that remaining patient and faithful through difficulty now may lead to Jannah, inshallah. Even if bad things happen, keep these thoughts in your mind. Don't worry about tomorrow. Just concentrate on getting through today, and leave tomorrow to Allah SWT until it gets here.
That's how you do it.

Final Words of Encouragement
I have been wearing hijab since September 1999. I do not regret it. I have never for one instant regretted it. I do not regret it even one iota. Inshallah, you will discover that you feel the same. Even within a few months I came to feel that I would not be properly dressed if I went out not wearing hijab. This is when you know that you have made it!
Never feel that you are alone, or that you are the only one who is scared and worried and nervous. Just about every other sister who has travelled down this road has gone through the same things. I know I have. Your sisters are here for you. We have been where you are. We are encouraging you and cheering you on. We know what it takes because we had to find that in ourselves too. We are praying for your success just as we prayed for our own.
Come and join us.

Allah does not burden a soul except what it can bear. For it is what it has earned, and upon it is what it has made due. "Our Lord and Sustainer, do not condemn us if we forget or do wrong. Our Lord and Sustainer, do not put a burden on us like the burden You put on those who were before us. Our Lord and Sustainer, do not put a burden on us that we cannot endure. And blot out (our sins) and forgive us, and be gentle to us. You are our Protector. So help us against the rejectors." (Surah al-Baqarat ayah 286)

Source Reference: Al-Muhajabah
Courtesy: www.everymuslim.com

Why Do I Wear Hijab?

Why Do I Wear Hijab?

1. Because Allah said so.

But in the end, these are all secondary reasons, all reasons that come after the most important reason of all: I wear my hijab to obey Allah and worship Him. Even if I did not know the wisdom behind hijab or have any other reason for wearing it, I would still wear it because He has asked me to. I choose to be of those who say, “We hear and we obey” [2:285].

And that is why I wear my hijab, walhamdulilah. May Allah make the hijab a jewel to every Muslim woman, as it is to me.

2. Because I fear for myself.

Then there’s another reason, a more important reason, and it’s the hijab: that hijab I will one day wear as part of my burial clothes. There’s one difference here – I won’t have a choice about whether I wear that hijab or not, so why not wear it in this life, while I have the choice to follow the command of Allah? Allah asks us to be modest even in our graves when no one will see us or value us, so why shouldn’t we do it while alive? I want to wear hijab before it’s too late to be rewarded for it, before it’s too late to avoid punishment for not wearing it. I would rather walk this earth obeying and pleasing my Lord because I choose to, rather than meeting Him on the Day of Judgment having displeased Him.

3. Because I care about my sister in Islam.

The woman who walks along with her husband as he glances at me, comparing us and thinking of all the different women there are out there, while she experiences the hurt and jealousy. One day I might be faced with the same thing, and even if I think I’m pretty… well, there’s always prettier.

4. Because the “zina” (fornication) of the eye is the glance.

The Prophet salla Allahu alayhi wasallam said, “Every son of Adam has his share of zina. For the eyes may commit zina and their zina is looking…” [Bukhari, Muslim and Ahmed].

I want to protect myself from such glances. I don’t want to make such glances. I don’t want to be the object of such glances, either, and I certainly don’t want to be the cause of these glances. I don’t want anything at all to do with them.

5. Because I care about my brothers in Islam.

Many of these are brothers who, more than anything, want to get married to fulfill their desires in a permissible way, want to avoid haram glances – but they can’t get married yet because of their financial circumstances. I do not want to be a reminder of that to any of my brothers as he passes me, I do not want to be someone who arouses the desires he is trying so hard to control.

6. Because I fear for my brother in Islam.

The one I see at school or work or even on the bus, the one who’s struggling to please Allah by lowering his gaze. I do not want to be a hardship on him, and I do not want to be an obstacle in his path of closeness to Allah. How would I stand before my Lord bearing such a sin?

7. Because my beauty isn’t just on the outside.

When my husband comes along, the one I will marry and give a part of my life to, the one I will share my hopes and dreams with, the one who will become the father of my children – he will not choose me because of my body, insha’Allah. I do not want him to love me for it; I want him to know me for who I really am, to love my personality, to respect my values. Beauty fades with age, but the soul does not. There are many women out there who choose to wear the hijab after they are married, thinking that is how they will win a husband over initially. But if it was beauty that won him over in the first place, it can win him over again with another woman.

8. Because I respect myself.

I value myself and will not enter that sexual race where the prize is a vulgar word, a lustful glance, or the offer of an inappropriate friendship or relationship.

9. Because I am precious.

There’s no way I’m going to degrade myself by becoming an object to be seen by the eyes of every man and stranger. And I’m not going to let anyone steal a glance at my bare body, so long as I can help it.

But I can’t stop the men from looking… and I apologize to my sister who does not wear the hijab, because there are those out there with weak souls that will look your way, even if you do not want it. That is why Allah made the hijab fard, so that those with weak hearts will not be tempted in the same way. I’m talking about those men who, wherever they walk or drive, are always looking at every woman they see. And they continue their search, because no amount of looking is enough for them – but I won’t let them see much of me.

10. Because I’m free!

No one has the right to see anything of me that I don’t give them permission to see. It’s my right to choose who gets to see the best of me – and that will be the one who Allah gave the right to see me, the one who is halal for me, not some stranger. This is a man who will, insha’Allah, have the same feelings of love towards me, and will be willing to sacrifice for me like I sacrifice for him.